Comments | rpgru82: Did I make this up just now?

rpgru82

Did I make this up just now?

Mar 27, 2006 18:49

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crazedkay March 29 2006, 07:29:25 UTC

I would probably be more pissy about my significant other staring at my boobs. Who cares if he stares at another woman's face? At least he is looking at her face. But staring at my bountiful bosoms, obviously, while talking with friends would be annoying. After all, it's not like he wouldn't be able to see them when he wanted to, so why stare?

Is that a satisfactory answer?

rpgru82 March 29 2006, 20:48:39 UTC

You openly admit to allowing "impromptu" boob showings?!

Nice, put me down for two...tee hee

Why are you leaving now?!

crazedkay March 30 2006, 17:57:59 UTC

Yes, I openly admit to PAYING bosom showings!! A girl needs to make a living and pay for college after all.

I'm leaving because I never write in this thing anymore. No time. Especially since I just got back in the States and have to deal with everything before I graduate! Eeck!

sahroe March 29 2006, 13:19:02 UTC

Staring at my boobs, definately. Especially if he looks zoned out like he's not paying attention. I know they're magnificent and all, but pay attention to my words, dear, not my boobs.

sahroe March 29 2006, 13:19:45 UTC

PS - I don't know if I'd get pissy at my boy for looking at another woman's anything, either. So this really was an easy question to answer.

rpgru82 March 29 2006, 20:50:58 UTC

Why are women so overly pissed about their OWN MAN checking out THEIR...chests?

Well...granted, I guess I could have reworded that one.

What about...well...not so much staring at lusty like, but...perhaps the same expression one gets from eating JUST the right amount of good food and then lounging, watching a sunset...that extreme, "ahhhhh" feeling.

sahroe March 30 2006, 05:11:38 UTC

In this culture it's standard manners for the person that you are speaking with to look you in the face. If I was talking to someone who was staring at my unmoving foot I'd be annoyed too. Boobs, however, are so highly sexualized that if we are consciously looking at them we are trained to be thinking thoughts probably more relative to the symbolism of boobs than to the actual conversation. This staring/looking/whatever makes it apparent that the person you are speaking with is not listening. It's heavily a body language thing. Now, if I was talking about my boobs, then it would be perfectly acceptable for someone to stare them, because they are a part of the conversation. This goes for males or females, my boyfriend or not ( ... )

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