Re: been there done that...rpm53846October 7 2004, 10:50:51 UTC
Hey there. I wish I could just run like hell and never look back. I am seriously debating. This is something that I have been struggling with for quite some time now. I will let you know the outcome soon. Kiss xoxoRachelxoxo
familiar territory...sxylipsdivaOctober 6 2004, 17:17:51 UTC
I will have to say, I went through five years of just the same, only it was a roller-coaster I shared with another person they seemed to have been doing the same thing to.
I finally had the strength to walk away after the five years of 700 miles, crying, laughing, secret sharing, kissing, self molding, breakfast in bed, Oh, and the sex....too.
Ask yourself? Do you feel worthy of yourself or not? If not, stay...if you think highly of yourself in any way, walk.
Dont keep fooling yourself, b/c in reality, they are making a fool of you for you... Ria~
Re: familiar territory...rpm53846October 7 2004, 11:05:16 UTC
Yes, he is definitely making a fool of me as I am myself. So you have experienced the same thing? I wonder if this is a guy thing. And if so, when do they grow the fuck out of this. Because he is 30 years old. You would think they would be past the sniffing butt stage by then. Thank you sweets! xoxoRachelxoxo
Re: familiar territory...sxylipsdivaOctober 9 2004, 13:54:51 UTC
First of all, its not just a guy thing. Girls do it too, sad to say. Second, as for growing out of it...some do, whether now or later, and some never do. Its something you have to face about him, since you are aware of it and just like I said earlier..."You will have to ask yourself, 'are you worth more than this or not?'"
I have a hunch you are, but only you will be able to answer that for yourself!
I wish you the best...deep inside, as hard as it will/or may seem, you know the right thing to do for yourself and your own peice of mind/sanity...Ria~
Re: familiar territory...rpm53846October 10 2004, 16:52:00 UTC
So, you went through the same thing? When did you know it was time to walk if I may ask? ""you know the right thing to do for yourself and your own peice of mind/sanity...Ria~""- The problem is I am insane with him. I am insane with out him. I am just plan insane I guess. I give you a big fat kiss like this!!!!!!! xoxoRachelxoxo
Hey beautiful. I am glad that you responded. I felt you would understand more then most. Now, I am not one to be all lovey dovey in public, especially around friends. And public emotion is not what I want from him. It really hurts that he hides me like he does. And then for him to come home and tell me all about the great times him and his friends have. I understand boys get together on Sundays for football and Saturdays for beer and Thursdays for Fearfactor. All I would like to know is where do I fit in. Oh, thats right, when it's time to nut. How lucky I am.
Hypothetically speaking...alcoholabusedOctober 6 2004, 21:18:13 UTC
5 years is a bit TOO long to go with that kind of relationshit. I can't even remember 5 years ago, let alone stand a friendship that headed in that general direction. But, what would my opinion matter in this case anyway, it's totally up to you.
Re: Hypothetically speaking...alcoholabusedOctober 7 2004, 11:25:20 UTC
Sorry if that comment seemed a bit "asshole-ish", my mom was over my shoulder when I wrote it. I always act like a pessimistic, sacrcastic asshole with a morbid sense of humor around her for some reason. But seriously, I wouldn't even be friends with a person like that, let alone be involved with knowing them. 5 fucking years...? That must be one helluva person! Heh heh.
i just got out of a relationship that was skatchy to say the least and sometimes it is better to take a break and if you really love this person you will know after you split up. that is what i think, but that isn't always good, my relationship was only four years old.
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hypotheticly speaking...of course.
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but take care of you.
that's most important.
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I finally had the strength to walk away after the five years of 700 miles, crying, laughing, secret sharing, kissing, self molding, breakfast in bed, Oh, and the sex....too.
Ask yourself? Do you feel worthy of yourself or not? If not, stay...if you think highly of yourself in any way, walk.
Dont keep fooling yourself, b/c in reality, they are making a fool of you for you...
Ria~
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I have a hunch you are, but only you will be able to answer that for yourself!
I wish you the best...deep inside, as hard as it will/or may seem, you know the right thing to do for yourself and your own peice of mind/sanity...Ria~
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""you know the right thing to do for yourself and your own peice of mind/sanity...Ria~""- The problem is I am insane with him. I am insane with out him. I am just plan insane I guess.
I give you a big fat kiss like this!!!!!!! xoxoRachelxoxo
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But, what would my opinion matter in this case anyway, it's totally up to you.
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But seriously, I wouldn't even be friends with a person like that, let alone be involved with knowing them. 5 fucking years...? That must be one helluva person! Heh heh.
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