Random thoughts...

[rrbadmonkey18]

I was just thinkin...Jea said that she would kinda feel put out, I guess, if we went to the mall b/c I am not girly. Hhmmm....is there a such thing as being too girly? or even being too tom-boyish?...I mean I don't get all giddy over a lil, frilly purse or even over seeing an accessory that matches those cute high-heels in the back of my closet

Comments

[cat_man_do]

Congratulations! It's a rare girl that figures out to be person first, and female second. I have never understood why any woman, after even a brief exposure to most men, would go out of their way to attract them at random. Who wants to be a magnet for jerks? And why?

Good men like women who know that femininity is a power, not a limitation. It lets them treat you as an equal, not a pet. Somehow, I don't think you'd enjoy being a pet.

As for the right and wrong of it, I believe that we were each given feet, eyes, ears, hands, and minds that we might go, and see, and hear, and feel, and decide, for ourselves.

You just go on being you, in whatever way feels right to you, and one day you'll find yourself right where you belong, with the people you belong with, doing what you're meant to do. Where else could you be happy?

[tune_me_out]

You are BEAUTIFUL, because girls are the most beautiful when they're comfortable. Be comfy with yourself... that doesn't mean you have to go goo-goo ga-ga over makeup and crap. That's where I'm comfortable... doesn't mean it's where you should be or have to be. You're gorgeous, don't ever doubt it. *mwah*