you know. living with a guy who yells at me when stressful things occur, i can tell you something...my boyfriend loves me. and the only reason he gets pissed is because when i cry and i freak out, it only makes it worse on him..and he wants to be the strong one. the one who is angry about it and is so pissed and wants those things to change..and me crying only makes it worse. it makes him think that i'd rather admit defeat and cry in a corner than fight.
i think your boy is just as upset about whatever it is that's going on as you are. and you crying is only making it worse on him because he's already so upset and it upsets him to hear you cry.
just a thought. he loves you, i know he does. and this is just someone who knows you from lj and reads your posts and sees your pics of you two.
i know it sucks. but cry when you don't talk to him. be happy when you do, then he knows that you're happy when you to talk to him, not hurt by him when he's there.
thank you dear this means alot to me. It really does, I know i dont comment as much as i should on your journal but i am reading it, i do almost every day. Your words do mean alot to me. Generaly you are the only one that does understand and that i can relate too.
Just sometimes it's so hard, i cant help but break down. I wish i was stronger. Like a superhero.
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you know. living with a guy who yells at me when stressful things occur, i can tell you something...my boyfriend loves me. and the only reason he gets pissed is because when i cry and i freak out, it only makes it worse on him..and he wants to be the strong one. the one who is angry about it and is so pissed and wants those things to change..and me crying only makes it worse. it makes him think that i'd rather admit defeat and cry in a corner than fight.
i think your boy is just as upset about whatever it is that's going on as you are. and you crying is only making it worse on him because he's already so upset and it upsets him to hear you cry.
just a thought. he loves you, i know he does. and this is just someone who knows you from lj and reads your posts and sees your pics of you two.
i know it sucks. but cry when you don't talk to him. be happy when you do, then he knows that you're happy when you to talk to him, not hurt by him when he's there.
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Just sometimes it's so hard, i cant help but break down. I wish i was stronger. Like a superhero.
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