I may or may not be, a bit of a dick. I promise this is going somewhere...

Mar 23, 2011 16:42



I was going to do a sort of Pros and Cons list to decide how much of a dick I am. But it occured to me that the only things on the Pro list are 1. I actually think I'm a dick 2. I think the guy who's making me in to such a dick may actually be worth it.

And the Cons list is sort of hilarious. Things like: I'm singing along to J. Williams. I find ( Read more... )

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talkingtocactus March 23 2011, 03:47:53 UTC
did you forget to close your lj cut?

I'll reply more tmro ;)

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rtmiss March 23 2011, 03:54:25 UTC
Actually I keep fiddling with it which is only making it worse LMAO

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rtmiss March 23 2011, 03:58:59 UTC
Stupid cocksmack thing. I'm now certain that I have the HTML right... I think this will teach me to try to be lazy and use the rich text editor first...

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talkingtocactus March 23 2011, 04:20:26 UTC
yeah it looks ok now :) now stop fiddling with it and leave it alone!!!*

* still talking about the html...

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rtmiss March 23 2011, 04:00:00 UTC
Right, now that I have the stupid code right. LMAO, teach me to try to do it the 'easy' way....

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atropus March 23 2011, 11:50:48 UTC
I don't know you well enough to post any useful feedback.

1. You make conscious decisions - at least part of the time. Keep it up, and don't hate yourself for choosing to make decisions that most people don't bother to think about. That makes them lazy and not you more of a dick. (If that makes any sense?). Just keep assessing your values and your long-term goals and try and marry what you are doing with what you want to do with yourself.

2. I've always thought you were hot :P Not in a practical sort of way... more in a sort of window shopping way... so feel free to think I'm a creep and feel empowered by being all objectified and stuff :P

3. Most of my best friends (and husband) are kinda dicks. They are some of the greatest people I know.

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rtmiss March 24 2011, 06:10:55 UTC
Hot? Not in my mirror, but thank you :)Objectified is kinda fun - my hair is attracting a certain amount of attention...

I think I'm over thinking certain things. But I do prefer to be armed with a decision I can defend, at least to myself.

Being a dick can be awesome. Which is lucky really.

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marsden_online March 23 2011, 20:56:44 UTC
I don't actually know you well enough to like you in more than a general "longstanding member/ex-member of extended social group, never done me a disservice" kind of way (I 'like' a lot of people like that, which is one of the things which makes -me- vulnerable) but here is what I see that makes you worth continuing to like and keep track of years later

- you do get stuff done. Good stuff. Though it may be a struggle against yourself to get there at times and against the idiots around you to get anything done at other times.

- you're still growing into that I think, which is interesting and sometimes educational to watch. I try to learn from other people's approach to challenges where their situations are similar to my own (and there are similarities) and your approach may well be worth emulating.

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rtmiss March 24 2011, 06:13:23 UTC
I _try_ to get stuff done. And I try to be good, within certain broad boundaries. Bad can be nice.

I like to examine my thoughts, and I'm arrogant enough to think that might be occasionally interesting to other people.

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xenogram March 23 2011, 21:29:02 UTC
You have a playlist called "lurve" :-)

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rtmiss March 24 2011, 06:14:20 UTC
If you knew what was on it you wouldn't think that was a bonus.

Maybe you would. You're a Rat Bastard like that. <3

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