how long have you been saying the same things about chris? a year? two? he's not going to change and there is no reason for YOU to change the way you feel about how he is and treats you. makes me want to cry. you should not have to settle in any aspect of your life.
they're doing pretty well. the new one has taken to chewing on computer cords and cables lately...what a pain in the ass. she's cute though, so i'll forgive her.
jenny, the only person you have to take care of is yourself, and now your baby. you will only find more disappointment the longer this continues. every mother is a working mother. feeling overworked and underpaid at home and with children, can be very overwhelming. women always survive, and you can do that without chris, if that is what it comes to in order for you to be happy and self reliant when it comes to raising a child. make good choices. you can only depend on yourself, and that is not a luxury.
Your words concern me. I want you to ENJOY your pregnancy. Our bodies as we are carrying babies, naturally start creating a chemical designed specifically for the mom (and the care of the baby) called RELAXIN. It is to counteract the effects of the stress hormone (called CORTISOL) so that we do not have excess amounts of stress washing over the uterus and creating stress in a child who, essentially, has no stress, or shouldn't. I tell you this because we have nature's safety factor to protect small amounts of undue stress, but not excessive. And you, little Cancer, are a natural worry-wort. Just prioritize. Your needs come before Chris's at all costs. And the baby's come before your own. Love you big time. I will post my belly soon!
Thank you for posting this! I've been thinking about you and about how I SO understand and relate to certain things you are experiencing. Being alone and pregnant is the total shits. It's impossible for anyone to imagine how it feels unless they have truly BEEN there. You are loved, miss J. Please take care and do not allow anyone to tell you that being in your shoes is easy. Growing pains never feel good, no matter where they come from...and that is not just a comment directed toward your belly...pregnancy and motherhood are LIFE encompassing. Love you and hope you keep feeling well!
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how's the new bebe at your house doing? ;)
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your words and concern mean tons to me
how are you doing? i want you to post pics!
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Im feeling alot better and just keep doing my best and hoping for the best ♥
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