Darlin, I Don't Know Why DJ's Go To Extremes

[rubyphoenix]

this morning I was stuck in traffic, listening to the radio since I still haven't installed my cd player. The DJ was asking the audience "Is it a problem if somebody you are starting to date is 'too nice"? Would you rather date somebody that's a little bit of a 'bad ass

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Re: I'm with you

[rubyphoenix]

This fool once said, out loud, "you just gonna sit there and read a book?"
lmao!! yo i can just hear somebody saying that shit, causing me to laugh right in their face!

Charmane has told me that she gets restless when I read sometimes. Especially if she's in the mood to talk and I'm in the mood to read quietly. But then, I'm the same way when it comes to her. Sometimes she's in her studio doing things, and even if I wanted to spend the evening with her chatting, I admire her love of the studio so I stay out. And I think you're right about that being a maturity/respect thing. Even if I'm chomping at the bit to get in there and chat with her about my day, I hold it in for a couple hours and let her do what she wants to do.

[espnchick1920]

She said she was annoyed with how always held doors for her, would constantly ask her if she was alright and called to see if she needed anything multiple times a day.

The holding doors thing isn't bad but the constant calling and asking if I'm okay? Really? Don't you have a job or something, dude?

Listening to this reasoning, I hear nothing in here about this girl in particular saying she wanted a bad ass.

And there it is. Plain and simple.

No, there isn't. But you know we are a very dichotomous society. Everything is either/or. There is no middle ground or gradations. Therefore, dudes are either knuckle-scrapping Neaderthals or wimpy, bitch-made dudes. Women are "nice girls" or sluts. There's no room for diversity and multiple facets of personality. (wait, wasn't one of our friends just talking about this??)

I'm a firm believer that every person you break up with isn't a jerk. Maybe there were annoying qualities, but sometimes you just aren't compatible and it's no one's fault. That's how I got my BBBFF (best best bestest

[scsubulldwg92]

I agree with this statement wholeheartedly as with anything on the radio (and the media) is about reporting the extremes. It's the reason why the political wingnuts get so much press even though the country leans towards the middle.