What do you think? time to ditch him?

Jul 23, 2007 13:10

i can't go anywhere for a whole day with out miguel complaining that something hurts him. Whether it be a tunny ache or his neck, back, head... whatever. Do you know anyone that feel pain every single day? I dont think i can stand it for much longer. he called me today and was like my tummy still hurts. And i was like, "suprise suprise." and he was ( Read more... )

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destea July 24 2007, 14:54:03 UTC
Oof... yeah that doesn't sound like a whole lot of fun to be around.

I found a few things were sure signs it was time to go before I finally gave up on the few long-term relationships I had before I met Frank:

1. I had continuous thoughts about how annoying they were regardless of whether I was with them at the time or somewhere without them (like at work - all day :|)
2. The sex became less and less interesting, and more vile.
3. I had no more sympathy for their plights (be it physical, emotional....)
4. The thought of letting them go is still hard, but also a little.... exciting, almost like it'd be a relief.
5. I wanted to spend more and more time NOT with them if I could find ways to make it happen.

Sounds to me like really he's just on your nerves a lot :| There are greener grasses out there, despite the saying. Sometimes it's worse to ignore that possibility and choose to settle than it is to just let go - especially when we're young!

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gogandmagog July 25 2007, 20:04:04 UTC
Sounds like it's time to give up the ghost, Molly. I am sorry for you and him, but better to do it sooner...does he know how you feel?

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rubywingcherub July 25 2007, 23:23:58 UTC
I try to let him know but i dont think he gets it. For example the other day I asked if he knew why i was mad at him and he said... "because i have been a jerk latley?" and i was like "uh no. you havn't been a 'jerk' lately. can you think of any other reasons?" And he said soemthing along the lines of... "because i have not been taking you out enough?" I said, no those are not the reasons. Those are things you can change. I dont know if you can change the things i am irritated about, but i had to go so we didn't have "the talk". It's hard because now that he feels like i might be slipping out of his grasp he has been super nice and sweet and easygoing.

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rubywingcherub July 25 2007, 23:24:49 UTC
Well i think you have some great insight here. Unfourtunatly almost everything on your list fits me. Thanks for the advice.

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