Can you remind me (you can PM me on synchro if you want) where exactly you live? I've got some resources for parental counselling that I could search to find something local for you.
oh i know it's probably no consolation but zab just pulled an hour long tantrum. i wanted to eviscerate her. and she doesn't even have a dad she can run to, instead she just rats me out to her daycare provider.
I don't believe you've failed. I believe you have a very smart little boy who would really like all the attention in the house, your's, his dad's and his little sister's. Ack, I had all sorts of things I wanted to say and they've flown away while I tried to figure out if they were pretentious or not...
damn, I wish I had something helpful to say. It's so frustrating when we spend so much time trying to provide positive things for them to do but they remember the 10 minutes where we channeled mommy dearest. If you haven't rented that movie maybe you should ;). God, I should just keep my mouth shut when I don't have anything good to say.
My earlier comment apparently didn't take. New baby time management sucks ass. It pains me greatly to see how it hurt Treya, and the more determined I was to be perfect, the harder I fell. My doctor reccommended 20 minutes a day with the older sibling. That's it, 20 minutes of your undivided attention. And it was so fucking hard to find that sometimes she only got it once a week.
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Can you remind me (you can PM me on synchro if you want) where exactly you live? I've got some resources for parental counselling that I could search to find something local for you.
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i will join you on the bad mother bench.
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I don't believe you've failed. I believe you have a very smart little boy who would really like all the attention in the house, your's, his dad's and his little sister's.
Ack, I had all sorts of things I wanted to say and they've flown away while I tried to figure out if they were pretentious or not...
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