I always have trouble finding some comforting words. I think your feelings and your reaction are completely natural, and while I think acting on them wouldn't be the right thing to do, I think you have to FEEL them, you know. It wouldn't be healthy to bury them somewhere deep down. I'm not sure it's something one should strive for, to forsake romantic love, but it's easy for me to say, because I'm a romantic at heart and because I've never had a boyfriend, so I've never been disappointed. Who knows what I would have to say in this moment if I had already been disappointed?
So I won't try and come up with some sort of advice what you should maybe do and what you shouldn't do. I'll just say that I hope the pain will lessen eventually.
If you want to go on a fun date some time before the 13th I've always wanted to take a girl out on a date. What's your fancY??
Its not going to make you feel better, or make you forget, it may distract you and you may have fun, but I'm offering, and would love to hang out even if you'd rather pass. =)
Anyhow... the timing sucks and I hope your spirits increase soon, it'll take a while.
I'm flattered, and tempted. But I feel like it's only going to make things worse at this point for me to try to see someone else. Thanks, though. Maybe some other time.
I'd still love to hang out sometime though. Let me know if you're ever in Downtown. I guess its liberating asking someone out that you haven't even seen a picture of.... lol
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I thought April was gay? And also, what the FUCK. That shit is not okay. Obviously he doesn't have to get your approval to date people, but fucking sleeping with someone, one of your friends, and not even letting you know he was going to date her? Not being involved with someone anymore doesn't mean you've got free reign to ignore their feelings entirely, ESPECIALLY not if you're supposedly still friends.
There are waaaayyyyy better ways to deal with this. Dude fucked this up.
There was actually this kinda funny moment last night after we'd been fighting about this for a long time, when I paused and said, not angry or upset, "Wait...April's gay!"
And Ian was similarly thrown off by that.
And then we resumed our fight.
I still hate him, but that part was funny.
Well, aparently he'd sent me an email saying he was going on a date with her like right before he went, but I don't check my email very often because I'm not expecting anything. And the email didn't say, "I'm going to take April to dinner and then we're going back to her place, oh my." I'm glad I sold my bed. At least I know it didn't happen in mine and Ian's bed, you know?
I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's fucked up. Like, "Happy Birthday! I can't go camping, but I can sleep with our mutual friend!" Fuuuucckkkked up. I'm here for you if you need talking or drinking or vengeance.
Also, meeting and Xena at Lili's at 6:30. Let's get some swords.
Oh hon, I'm so sorry, that's fucked up. I can semi, sort of understand what you're feeling, but not really, so I can imagine that it's much much worse. I always felt that in these situations spending time with other people, friends and whatnot, was the best because if you're alone you just dwell and dwell on it. We should hang out and go do lots of fun things.
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So I won't try and come up with some sort of advice what you should maybe do and what you shouldn't do. I'll just say that I hope the pain will lessen eventually.
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If you want to go on a fun date some time before the 13th I've always wanted to take a girl out on a date. What's your fancY??
Its not going to make you feel better, or make you forget, it may distract you and you may have fun, but I'm offering, and would love to hang out even if you'd rather pass. =)
Anyhow... the timing sucks and I hope your spirits increase soon, it'll take a while.
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I thought April was gay? And also, what the FUCK. That shit is not okay. Obviously he doesn't have to get your approval to date people, but fucking sleeping with someone, one of your friends, and not even letting you know he was going to date her? Not being involved with someone anymore doesn't mean you've got free reign to ignore their feelings entirely, ESPECIALLY not if you're supposedly still friends.
There are waaaayyyyy better ways to deal with this. Dude fucked this up.
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And Ian was similarly thrown off by that.
And then we resumed our fight.
I still hate him, but that part was funny.
Well, aparently he'd sent me an email saying he was going on a date with her like right before he went, but I don't check my email very often because I'm not expecting anything. And the email didn't say, "I'm going to take April to dinner and then we're going back to her place, oh my." I'm glad I sold my bed. At least I know it didn't happen in mine and Ian's bed, you know?
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Also, meeting and Xena at Lili's at 6:30. Let's get some swords.
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Thanks, Gles.
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But for what it's worth, I'm sorry.
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