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[ruinedyou]

I haven't given myself anytime to write, but I cleaned up my journal of accounts that were as I could tell, inactive. If you were removed, & are still here, let me know.

I also tried to let journals that have removed me know that I am BACK. The funny thing about that, is 95% of them banned me to keep their friends list clean ... yep, so I can't

Comments

[celica18l]

they banned you? that's kind of a crazy thing to do.

[ruinedyou]

I know. I figure it's to clean up their friends of list, but still --- it makes no sense to me. You can hide your friends of list from the public, so your profile will look clean either way. Most of my favorite reads never removed me, so that makes me happy. =)

[nicegirl]

I don't get the banning thing at all. It's just stupid to me!

[ruinedyou]

I know. ♥ glad you didn't ban me while I was away, I would have cried. a whole lot.

[nicegirl]

No way! Never you! And like you, I don't ban anyone unless they deserve it and even then idk if I've banned anyone on LJ. I don't even delete people anymore because I know people don't post as often but I also don't get the bitching about it. People say it's just not active anymore but I think there's one thing people need to take into account: many of the "inactive" people on their list have had children in the past few years and while some people can still find the time, some of us just can't. Not only that but I know I used to update more often after I had Carter but once he started getting into stuff and napping less that tapered off. Combine that with the fact that I had another baby and now have a 3rd on the way and I just flat out don't have enough hours in the day. I'd like to even publicly blog for my family and friends to see updates but I can't find the time for that either. Idk how people do it at all. I'm way too exhausted.

[ruinedyou]

I think you need to get on &&& vent a little more than you do! ♥ I think it would do a world of good. That's a reason why I decided to log into here more often, sooooo much has been eating at me lately I just need to vent, or burst!

[novas]

I don't understand the whole banning thing. I only ban accounts that people have deleted or that I know for a fact they don't use because they moved and they never removed me lol. Or I ban legit creeps haha!! ;P

[novemberwater]

hi I'm still here, usually! I am following you on pinterest(Sam Whitehouse)

[ruinedyou]

♥ no worries love. You've been kept. =)