um...stress

[runninggingers]

two words: wedding planning

I hate, hate, HATE that I can not please everyone with this wedding! I don't even have particular demands....I just want it to work out for everyone....

I really just can't think about it anymore tonight.

Comments

[jasper17]

You can't please everyone: this is YOUR wedding.

If they don't like it, screw 'em - you need to be happy with it and if you feel like running off to elope or just going to the courthouse, so be it.

Hang in there =)

[azzna]

Yeah, what she said! Do what you want and screw everyone else!

[transplanted]

Yeah what they said - only it's your's and toby's wedding - what you guys want is what's most important.

And you won't be able to please everyone with your wedding - give up that idea now and you'll feel better. Some people will just not be happy if you don't get married in a church - it's their loss. Some people will just not be happy if you don't have 'traditional' wedding vows preformed by a perist. Too bad for them. Keep in mind that it's for you and your man to stand up in front of your friends and family and say to eachother and the world "I take him, and he takes me, and all of you are going to help us, when we need help, because your our friends and family"