Excuses for non-straight action

[s1ckboy]

I was reading December issue of Attitude and William Baker had some correct opinions about gay scene. "Elements of the gay scene make me sick. If you haven't got a six pack and a big chest you don't fit in. It's all surface." That's true. The gay scene is so superficial!

"What's the point of being gay if you can't drag up every now and again? That

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[bulletme]

the gay scene can be awful...
but really, being gay doesn't mean you have to feel bad when you eat sweets, it doesn't mean you have to have a fit, muscular body and all that... those are stereotypes, and usually they don't apply to most people. i have gay friends who are skinny, fat, medium weight, muscular, weak etc... it doesn't matter. being gay is in your head, not how many push ups you can do (i can't do any, haha!)

/kasper.

[s1ckboy]

that actually made me feel quite nice. thank you. but if i'm only having sex with a guy, i prefer him to be fit. but if i get emotions involved (usually i do), it's the inside that counts (that's sounds such a cliche, but..)

hearts.

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[bulletme]

yeah, of course... if it's just a sex thing, the physical side does matter because that's all it's about, and of course, tastes vary. i have a very... varied taste in men, and i tend to focus on one part of the body. like, if a guy has nice lips or hands, that can be it for me. of course, when it's an emotional thing (which is usually is for me too) so many other things mean a lot more, and i get turned on by the person i love because of things he does or says. (my boyfriend is gorgeous, by the way, but it's still his heart and mind i love the most)

hearts.