As far as I know there are no rules and regulations about grieving the loss of a loved one, we're all different, there is no right and wrong way to do this and sadly it has to run it's own course for you. I'm glad your girls are there with you, that you have some help, we're always here if you need to vent, never apologise for not being in regular communications, you have enough to deal with without adding guilt to the menu, but thank you for touching base and letting us know how you're doing.
He'll always be with you honey, the void will always be there, but in time the memories won't hurt so keenly or be so sharp and they'll build a bridge to keep you safe from the pit, it's a long journey yet and it's hard and painful, but you'll make it.
Many, many hugs. I can't imagine what you're going through. I'm glad you have your daughters, and that we're here for you too, as much as we can be. No need to put an LJ cut over your entries, of course.
It was good talking to you this morning! Hope you made out OK at Home Depot, and got your weed whacking done before the day got too hot!
The peeps here at LJ sure do provide a shoulder to lean on. All the kind messages I got when my mom passed away meant a lot to me. The Internet *can* be freakish and mean sometimes, but far more often, there are nice people being nice.
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He'll always be with you honey, the void will always be there, but in time the memories won't hurt so keenly or be so sharp and they'll build a bridge to keep you safe from the pit, it's a long journey yet and it's hard and painful, but you'll make it.
**hugs**
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The peeps here at LJ sure do provide a shoulder to lean on. All the kind messages I got when my mom passed away meant a lot to me. The Internet *can* be freakish and mean sometimes, but far more often, there are nice people being nice.
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http://archiveofourown.org/works/804366
Its been around a while, but I'd also recommend Texts from a Cephalopod:
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http://archiveofourown.org/works/299805
just take care yourself and remember you have every right to feel overwhelmed right now - nobody expects you to do it all.
(((huggles you hard)))
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