Freinds?

[sabishibunny]

Okay so, problem. Someone I really dig as a friend, seems to have become more and more avoidant of their old crew. Opting to hang out with a buncha folks and act like their old friends don't exist, or at best, exist when their new folks ain't around. How do you handle this? I mean yeah I'm all for branching out, but not at the cost of hurting older

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[witchiebunny]

You understand that said person may in fact not be hanging out with a bunch of new folks, but may have more going on in their life than you know.

In this specific case, said person has been working like mad since one of her coworkers got promoted and shi has been covering quite a few of those hours, picking up two extra hours a week. Said person ALSO has been working on art and administering hir community more full time lately, and has been taken up with family obligations.

Lastly, yes said person has been hanging out with new friends, but not at the expense of hir old friends whom shi still holds in high respect. Also, certain bunnies may wish to be aware that they have not been around during the times shi may have been and if he has, then he hasn't been saying much to hir as of late or messaging hir when it's clear shi's on. (just starting up a game, etc.)

Those times shi has been around when you have been, or when you've needed help/advice and shi's been busy, shi's stopped to help you.

Just my advice.