WTF with Christian men?

[sacrificedreams]

Im mad as hell that Christian men demand to be respected, demand to be supported, demand to be followed. When every one, except Zac, I have ever been with, or who has talked to me about being together, lead me straight into sin then blamed their flesh and said they were so sorry

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[it_wuz_luv]

It won't change any of that which has already happened, nor will it improve the future and your search for a man worthy of you, BUT... may I come and visit you to give you a big hug and talk a bit?? :)

[sacrificedreams]

Lol. Yes. You may. Im not as upset as it sounds like... well yes. I am. Im burt but Im raging pissed that I keep hearing it from other girls too. Its like when do men turn it off, you know? Not that girls dont have a hand to play... but gosh. YEs, i would love to see you!

[it_wuz_luv]

I feel ya, I seriously do! I sincerely apologize for my lack of leadership in the past-- I hope and pray to continue to improve my manhood in Christ, aka leading men and women in the Lord. I get pissed at men not steppin up, also... so you're not alone, and you know there's at least one guy (me!) who's nearly on the same page as you.

[sacrificedreams]

Thanks J- That means a lot. Im all done with men here. Ive pretty much outlawed any of my girls dating anyone. lol... except you of course.

[besetfree]

I stumbled across your blog, and I can't say that it wasn't hard for me to read through it. I want to offer you a little encouragement and tell you that I absolutely believe with all of my heart that if you possition yourself in a place where you are extravegantly loving God, more than anything, that he will reveal to you when HIS timing is for you to enter a relationship... and when it's ordained by God, I don't feel like you will encounter the same problem. You have to look at how you got into that possition, or how you let yourself become so close to someone who is clearly not mature enough in his relationship with Jesus to lead you in a righteous relationship. It's hard for guys in this area... it's like their brain turns off if they find themselves in that kind of situation...I understand that... but I know that when a man loves God enough, and cares about you enough to want God's best for you, he will establish boundaries with you at the begining of your relationship and prayerfully work hard to make sure that he is in the right

[it_wuz_luv]

Naw, I think you're very wrong in trying to put all this back on Beth

[sacrificedreams]

Thanks Justin. You have no idea how much that meant to me. It is really hard to hear time and time again from the Church about how I need to live one life one way and play one role: wait until the Lord brings one man, the right one, and date only him, support and obey him no matter what he says. I don't buy that. And in fact, the Lord has told me it isnt true. I too admired her intentions, but I know that isn't who the Lord has made me to be. I know God has formed me to stand beside Him first and foremost, and He has allowed these situations in my life, and in the lives of my friends, knowing He can make good of them. (Romans 8:28). I know God has challenged me to take a stand for righteousness. In no way do I want to be married right now, but I am dating. I know and understand that the Lord hasn't called me to only date one person. I also know He allows me to have these encounters to shape me into the woman He wants me to be; but the crap part that I didnt express very well, is watching the SAME Christian brothers make the same

[it_wuz_luv]

You made me smile. :-D