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[sagescorpion]

I feel so depressed

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they will come, if you ask

[clearerblue]

Are friends not offering you assistance, because they do not want to, or because they do not know how to? Often times friends want to contribute to making you feel better, but they just don't know how, because they do not understand what it is that you need. Nevermind friends--do YOU know what you need? If you know, or when you discover what it is that you need, what are SPECIFIC things that your friends can do to help make you feel better? Do you want to ask a friend to take a walk with you? Go for a drive with you? Or something more emotionally involved, like holding you (non-sexually, so that emotions don't get confused), so that you can cry it all out? Maybe you don't need anymore advice, but just someone to be there to listen and to let you talk or cry it all out. I would imagine that a good friend would be willing to do any of the above for you. But first, you need to help them do that for you, by indicating with WORDS, the best you can (because it does take courage and humility), what you think you need from them.