noticing trends...

[saichen]

i've had 2 friends get divorced in as many years.  but there are much more marriages occuring than divorces... at least for me.  i'm at the early 20's age, tho.  i suppose there will be more divorces in a few years

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[instigator_ash]

Yeah. Divorces nearby socially are disturbing. I don't know the people involved well enough to know what the cause is, though.

I love Rissa more now than when I married her. I don't expect that trend to ever reverse.

"How can you love someone more and more if you share everything about yourself before the wedding?" Honestly, this is not possible. I lived with Rissa for years before we got married, shared a bed, bought a house together, raised kittens together. I learn new things about her every day and we've been married a year and a half now. You can't learn everything about someone before you get married. People are just too complicated for that.