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[said_by_me]

So here is something I don't understand

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[said_by_me]

Oh Katie - no. It had nothing to do with that

[ewigweibliche]

I will continue to defend a No on Prop 8 vote, but I too don't understand why we can't have civil debate and discussion. I'm sorry that people are being nasty. I hope my political rantings aren't some of what is bothering you. I get heated by I try not name call.

The idea that friends must always vote the same way and believe the same things and have the same tastes is part of what is polarizing this country.

[said_by_me]

You and I have always been able to discuss things like, ya know.... adults. We're cool.

Its not aimed at anyone specific really

[alwaysamommy]

I hope my explanation of prop 8 to your Aussie friend didn't come off as a dig toward the way you voted. I was just trying to explain it in very simple terms because our government is pretty confusing to those that don't live here (and to those that do at times).
I agree with you about not hating each other for our beliefs. I don't have to like what you or the guy across the street voted for but that's why I also get a vote... to state my opinion. Not everyone can win. That's democracy. (Not that prop 8 affects me. I live in IL and wouldn't ever get married again even to a man. I just mean in general.)

[said_by_me]

Nope... has nothing to do with you

[alwaysamommy]

Good. :)

[said_by_me]

I can't imagine cultivating a new friendship with someone with so little common ground.

Totally. When I was writing it, I was thinking more along the lines of people that I am already friends with, rather than new friends.

And yes, I agree that you have been more than respectful.

[said_by_me]

Exactly! Granted, there is less common ground and a higher potential for frustration with a mom that is outside of so many core values but the potential for love and family still there too if we stay open to it

[slinksgirl]

The nastiness seems to be contagious, no?

[said_by_me]

Always is bb

[slinksgirl]

I'm sorry :(

[said_by_me]

meh I just should have c&p'd your post from a few days ago. I am finding myself defending a religion I am not a member of, being offended over things that were not said about me and in general, just very disappointed that all the election stuff is just as heated as it was 2 weeks ago.