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[said_by_me]

Wow way to be a selfish bitch and turn your kid's life into a Jerry Springer episode.

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[rdolivaw]

I am really not seeing what's bad about this arrangement, to b honest. The every other day thing sucks, but it seems like people are judging her for leaving her husband and moving in with another man, because she has a son. I don't think we have to be glued forevers to the parent of the child because there is a child.

[said_by_me]

I don't see the issue in her moving in with another dude. I do though see a HUGE issue in stability for that kid if he is sleeping in a different place every night.

[rdolivaw]

Many children do that.

[said_by_me]

I disagree that it makes for decent parenting when there are other options available.

[said_by_me]

exactly

[amyura]

Excuse me, it's HOT mom. She's so hot! Because she uses Noxema and SPF on her face! You'd NEVER know she's 40!!!

[rdolivaw]

Attacking a woman's looks, classy. A+

[slinksgirl]

Bob and I do an every-other-day arrangement :(

[said_by_me]

Sam is 4 though... when did you guys start that?

[slinksgirl]

Around 4 months...though he didn't have her overnight until she was 8 months old. IDK, maybe because it is the only thing Samantha has known, we've never had an issue except when he is gone for longer periods of time, like 2 weeks. We also live 5 miles from one another.

[said_by_me]

And maybe that is the difference. It sits bad with me to have a 2 year old go from HAI 2 parents ONE house to 3 parents and a new house everyday.

[_brandnewdays]

The thing that makes no sense to me is the I don't work, we owe money big time, and I am assuming maybe incorrectly, that the place she is labeling her place was once their place that he probably still pays for and she is moving someone else in. It all seems very selfish and like someone needs a big dose of reality and maturity.

[rdolivaw]

Yeah, leaving the father of your child is very immature and selfish. Totes.

[_brandnewdays]

What does totes mean?
And btw, what I said in no way translates to me thinking that someone leaving the father of your child is immature and selfish. Just commenting that the way she posted sounded like she was dealing with the situation in an immature and selfish manner.

[idemandjustice]

Wait, if she's saying they can't afford lawyers and want to work it out themselves, why is she even posting it to law questions?

And she said her husband told her she's not going to take their kid, so I wonder if he'll fight her on it. Seems like a no-brainer to me, and from what she's said here, the husband will probably win.