no matter how pathetic, sad, selfish, retarded, dumbfuck headed....hes still your dad..... trust me no matter how much you hate him now.....when hes gone you are going to wish otherwise....take it from someone who has been through it....the more of a bitch he is the more you should try to fix things....
buchheit i agree with the kid above me. some of it sounds like your dad just wants you to succeed in life, to have a future that is secure. maybe e-mailing him isn't the best thing. it sounds like there are a lot of issues that need to be resolved between the two of you. have you ever thought about maybe going to a psyche with him and talking about things? it would be good to have a non-biased middle man to help mediate things and perhaps give you both a different perspective. your dad loves you buchheit.
another thing. why haven't i even seen you this summer? every time mike and i have called you your too busy to do stuff with us. i'm gonna be pissed if i move away without you calling me once... i'm giving you notice
Some people will never understand what it means to break a relationship with a parent totally off...thats because they've never been there. They've never been driven to that point. So I say, that those people have the stereotypical mindset that "Oh, they're your parent, you'll make up with them eventually." Life does not always have such convenient solutions to such complex problems.
well, im sorta in the middle of breaking the relationship with my parents totally off. I'm not sure which way it will go, but through psychotherapy ive learned that my father is in fact an ass, but there are ways to cope with it. i find my best option to be completely untied down by him, in other words, paying my own way through college. he gives my whole family this mindset that we all are completely financially dependent on him and we will never survive without him. im slowly getting past this difference with him, however, bc ive narrowed it down to the root of the problem and figured out how to cope with it. and by the way, psychotherapy is not convenient, its very out of the way, and its an incredibly difficult path to take. most people avoid it, quit going, try to find excuses to not go, bc its so hard to try and figure out how to deal with problems. i admit, i avoid my sessions like the plague. but every time i go, i get healthier. you should read this book called "The Road Less Traveled" by something Peck. its pretty
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I don't know you or your dad, and reading your earlier posts make it pretty clear that you neither care for anyone disagreeing with you, nor answer to anybody but God, but you might want to consider, even if for just a moment, the notion that the only "vehement blast of unsolicited anger" in your post was from you.
Well, if you don't know me or my father, you're not qualified to make a valid comment on the situation, are you? If you do know me, and are just doing this anonymously, I can't possibly see why. Yes, I don't care if people disagree with me. I think its a virtue, because I can hear what they have to say and not give them shit about it. Assuming you actually don't know me, how about reading my WHOLE livejournal, then making a comment. I'm not the person you have perhaps prejudged me to be.
Actually, I have read your entire journal. It's an interesting read, and while I've done so for well over a year now, I've not posted comments before just because I don't know the whole situation. My comment here was simply about the tone of the 2 emails, which interestingly enough, after sniping back at me, you then agree in your next post that you went overboard. *shrug*
Best of luck to you in your life and with your dad.
Well, putting aside any previous comments and snipes, why have you been reading my journal for over a year? I haven't made it friends only, because I simply felt no need to...but if you can't identify yourself to me, I cannot allow my journal to remain that way. I don't mind people looking at it, but looking at it continuously for over a year when you have no livejournal account, or choose not to use it? Thats a tad unsettling to me.
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no matter how pathetic, sad, selfish, retarded, dumbfuck headed....hes still your dad..... trust me no matter how much you hate him now.....when hes gone you are going to wish otherwise....take it from someone who has been through it....the more of a bitch he is the more you should try to fix things....
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another thing. why haven't i even seen you this summer? every time mike and i have called you your too busy to do stuff with us. i'm gonna be pissed if i move away without you calling me once... i'm giving you notice
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Life does not always have such convenient solutions to such complex problems.
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If you do know me, and are just doing this anonymously, I can't possibly see why. Yes, I don't care if people disagree with me. I think its a virtue, because I can hear what they have to say and not give them shit about it.
Assuming you actually don't know me, how about reading my WHOLE livejournal, then making a comment. I'm not the person you have perhaps prejudged me to be.
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Best of luck to you in your life and with your dad.
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