relationship investments

[saltymargarita]

and so as of about 1/2 hour ago, i'm single again.  w is going to try to reconcile with his ex-wife.  they're 5 years divorced and 3 hours apart.  never occurred to me there was any possibility there. he was honest and needed to follow his heart...i can't find fault with him.  is a 10 year lost relationship worth trying to workout, if even at the

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oh crap...

[lollyb13]

Lisa,

I am so sorry this happened to you.

I feel as though I'm slowly headed in a similar direction... someone who's been separated for many years and never really felt the need for a divorce. I've been hoping that my wonderful personality, cooking acumen, beer sluggling, football watching nature would turn his head and he seems to spend more time "just helping out around the house" than investing time with me... thus the myspace page... virtual safety net?

I'm terrible at holding back on those emotional reins. More of a heart on her sleeve kind of personality...

We don't know each other well at all, but I would love to live near enough to talk over a bottle of wine and whine!

There, I started down that story-telling path I thought was going to require alcohol and it just came out!

I wish I could be helpful!

Laurie

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[saltymargarita]

awwww....thanks, Laurie...i'm sorry that you see this possibility as well--it's worse to me to be wondering and in limbo.

i wish we lived closer too. but i'd seriously consider driving to pitt for a day over the break between christmas and new years if you were going to be around--it would be great to beer slug, cook and watch football together...

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[lollyb13]

Hey,

I am just about finished with my annual holiday schedule negotiations... such a pain in the ass...

I will probably have the 27th and the 28th on my own if you're serious about making a trip. We could meet midway if you liek. P swaps households tomorrow and I'll have a clearer picture of the plans in that household. I travel to Meadville on the 29th to be with my sisters and mom for our Christmas celebration.

Laurie

[saltymargarita]

thank you, peter :-) yes, i know what you mean. i will take time and i'm even prepared to spend new year's eve alone...if that's the way it turns out...i know i'll be ok...and someday....there will be someone who will cherish me and i him...