She changed the date because it interfered with my dad's schedule. As for Mom, she's happy for me, but doesn't really understand why I'm feeling so frustrated about all this.
I think it's totally understandable to feel that way. No need to feel guilty or ashamed at all, especially given your background w/ your sister. May looks like an incredibly insane month for you and your family, what a pain that your sister changed her wedding date :/
Too bad she can't have it in late summer, like August, when (hopefully) so much isn't happening. :(
Couldn't you just change the date your eloping? or change 'elope' to 'wedding'? you just shoot yourself in the foot when you could change things. Unless theres some reason I don't know about that says you couldn't elope a different month. Hell, change it into a wedding.
Weddings don't HAVE to be this grand scale huge ass traditional things people always think of, but they don't have to be unceremonious completely, either. Try working things and be flexible - not "DO" or "NOT DO". There is a such thing as grey between black and white.
Don't worry about everyone elses money - weddings are celebrations of two people coming together - it's the couple's right to shine. The sun is bright, but it's not littered with grandios decoration around it =p
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Why is she changing the date anyway? How does your mom feel about the eloping thing?
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Too bad she can't have it in late summer, like August, when (hopefully) so much isn't happening. :(
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Weddings don't HAVE to be this grand scale huge ass traditional things people always think of, but they don't have to be unceremonious completely, either. Try working things and be flexible - not "DO" or "NOT DO". There is a such thing as grey between black and white.
Don't worry about everyone elses money - weddings are celebrations of two people coming together - it's the couple's right to shine. The sun is bright, but it's not littered with grandios decoration around it =p
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