I'm thinking of going to default private.

[samantha_vimes]

I don't really use this anymore except to communicate with established friends, and I get tired of weirdos and random spam

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[maddiec24]

Sending good thoughts to you and your dad. *hugs*

[snarkysneak]

I really hope this works! Stomach flu at the best of times sucks. I cannot imagine stomach flu after any type of surgery. Urrrgh. That sounds horrible.

Good luck on your midterms! You will rock them.

[bonnie_halfelvn]

You dad sounds like a tough guy. I hope he pulls through.

I am still public, but comments are friends only. I got tired of the spam, too.

[vilakins]

Your father's attitude is just what's needed. All the best to him and you and all the family.

I've had to make comments friends-only to avoid spam. That works pretty well; people who know me and genuinely want to communicate PM me and I make them friends.

[utsi]

friends lock seems to be the best way to avoid spam and wierdos.... what ever path you need to tread though, i will support you *hugs*

hoping the scary midterms weren't so bad and that you kicked butt :)

cheering your dad on and thinking positive thoughts his way. i'm glad he's got such a strong attitude and positive energy

*hugs*