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[samselvenstar]

its a sad life i lead. Its funny. i just can't go more than a few months without screwing something up. maybe i dont deserve to have what i have. maybe they deserve someone better. but what i know is i am absolutely 100% in love but i keep screwing it up. I keep ruining EVERYTHING! I mean first we dated for months and then we broke up a lot becuase

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[fallen_amadeus]

Look, everyone will make mistakes from time to time. I know it sounds harsh but no relationship is every truly 100% perfect... and if it was it would probably be kinda boring.

Just make sure that the reason you're freaking out isn't because you're finding out that she's not in the same league with the idealized version of herself that you made up in your head.

Because when people love each other they tend to look at each other at their best, but nobody is always at their best, and eventually the real person and the idealized version aren't quite the same thing anymore.

Look the most important thing is that you are honest with her. Try to sit down and explain how you feel, what's going through your head, and why, and maybe the two of you can tackle both of your problems together instead of trying to fight them as two individuals.