Again, your situation was something that just could not be avoided unless you decided to lie. If that lie were to come to light, it would be more poisonous than presenting the problem openly, though.
That being said, I don't think there is anything you could have done differently about the situation, so there is little blame on your part.
Humans are fickle creatures =) They are easily hurt, and sometimes you can't really do anything about it.
To your original question: I have hurt my parents' feelings before, and I do feel guilty about that. However, the problem could end in no other way. I had kept a facade for too long; it had to fall. Other than that, I hope I have not hurt anyone else =/
I have been on the receiving end of disappointment before, but that is likely because I did not allow my thoughts and feelings to be expressed. It sucks, but you bite your lip and move forward. There is not much else you can do.
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That being said, I don't think there is anything you could have done differently about the situation, so there is little blame on your part.
Humans are fickle creatures =)
They are easily hurt, and sometimes you can't really do anything about it.
To your original question: I have hurt my parents' feelings before, and I do feel guilty about that. However, the problem could end in no other way. I had kept a facade for too long; it had to fall. Other than that, I hope I have not hurt anyone else =/
I have been on the receiving end of disappointment before, but that is likely because I did not allow my thoughts and feelings to be expressed. It sucks, but you bite your lip and move forward. There is not much else you can do.
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