It sounds to me like you're spending too much time together. I know it sounds weird, because when you feel like you're growing apart from someone you feel like you should be spending more time together, not less. But the fact is, people need space and time to themselves sometimes. I'm sure Scott wouldn't literally choose his Xbox over you, but when he would rather play it than seeing you one night it probably just means he needs a little time to himself. I know you guys see each other almost every day. Petey and I were like that over the holidays, and we went through a similar situation. Now we see each other on weekends, and maybe once during the week, and honestly, things are a lot better between us. Because we're not around each other all the time, we value the time we do spend together more. We also have more to talk about, and we do more things together, rather than being together but doing separate things
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this has been so fucking helpful. everyone has just been telling me to break it off.. yet they dont really understand that i say this shit in the heat of the moment, and in reality he is a great guy and i fucking love him!! its just when i get down and frustraited i just want to vent all the negative stuff.. no joke this has helped me more then you realise... THANK YOU SO MUCH. you have no idea... and your right i do have to occupy myself... dont be sorry at all i love this type of feed back and is is constructive and it tells me how to fix the problem not get rid of it. I am coming to you with all my relationship advice... no joke.. I am even going to save what you wrote just so i can remember it i love you SOOO much and we DO have to catch up
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But the fact is, people need space and time to themselves sometimes. I'm sure Scott wouldn't literally choose his Xbox over you, but when he would rather play it than seeing you one night it probably just means he needs a little time to himself.
I know you guys see each other almost every day. Petey and I were like that over the holidays, and we went through a similar situation. Now we see each other on weekends, and maybe once during the week, and honestly, things are a lot better between us. Because we're not around each other all the time, we value the time we do spend together more. We also have more to talk about, and we do more things together, rather than being together but doing separate things ( ... )
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everyone has just been telling me to break it off.. yet they dont really understand that i say this shit in the heat of the moment, and in reality he is a great guy and i fucking love him!! its just when i get down and frustraited i just want to vent all the negative stuff..
no joke this has helped me more then you realise...
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
you have no idea...
and your right i do have to occupy myself...
dont be sorry at all i love this type of feed back and is is constructive and it tells me how to fix the problem not get rid of it.
I am coming to you with all my relationship advice... no joke.. I am even going to save what you wrote just so i can remember it
i love you SOOO much
and we DO have to catch up
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