Why Single Ladies Born in the 80s or 90s May Never Get a Husband
I stumbled across this on my facebook feed earlier tonight, and was sucked in by the clickbait title. http://www.media254.com/why-single-ladies-born-in-80s-90s-may-never-get-a-husband-soon/I had hoped that this would be a piece cheering on women who decided to not get married. My hopes were dashed immediately when I read the first two items on the
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Your list is spot on.
A husband shouldn't be a fashion accessory - something that you 'need' to complete your look.
It is good to have a partner - someone to share the highs, lows and housework - but a real partner will accept you as you are and not require you to do or be something that you aren't. A good partnership requires a lot of give and take in both directions and respect in both directions as well.
I've had a husband since before you were born but wouldn't look for another one if this one wasn't around anymore. I made that decision somewhere in the 80s! :)
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1 That's a pretty large generalization. I myself am rather utilitarian with my phone and don't watch celebrity shows.
2 Yeah, I dislike cooking. I'm also really bad at it. If you'd like to get food poisoning, I'll happily cook for you, author. As for chores, name ONE person who "enjoys" them.
3 Looking nice doesn't require spending a bunch of money. Anyway, I dress up to make myself feel good, not to be someone's doll.
4 Some women are self-conscious and feel the need to wear a lot of makeup. Some women just like wearing a lot of makeup. Some women, like me, only wear makeup when going somewhere nice. Again, I'm not anyone's doll.
5 Who am I to have a thousand friends on Twitter, Facebook, etc.? Someone who likes to keep up with people. Also, how is being online a "clear sign" of being unfaithful? Men spend just as much time online as women, arguably more if you count the MMOs they play on their consoles.
6 So no man wants to marry a girl "talking and laughing" on the ( ... )
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