I've been thinking alot about what makes a bondage photo 'good' If you are clicking about on some pervy web site, what is it about an image that makes you open it up? The style of the bondage, intricate, complex or simple but effective? The bondage material, rope leather cuffs, chain, handcuffs...scarves? What the person is wearing, fetish wear, ( Read more... )

Driving in, I was tailed by a bright red top down Miata driven by a woman - a woman wearing a baseball cap. I think the demise of the open car contributed to the headscarf falling out of style. Instead of a revival, the scarf has been replace by the baseball cap. I know baseball hats are ubiquitious, convienient, hip, in style, but not in a ( Read more... )

I am always aware of what I am wearing and especially so when a strap slips off my shoulder, creating a tug against my arm as I move. In private, I can just reach into my shirt and pull the strap back up but in public or the meeting I just came from, that gesture is inappropriate, so I sit there feeling a trifle off balance ( Read more... )

As I have more and more poked around LJ, this person's friend leads you that person's friend who is a member of X Community which leads you more and more people, all quite addictive, I have been amazed at the profiles, learning more about someone in 30 seconds than you could learn living with them for 30 days, fascinating, very fascinating. OK so ( Read more... )

Thinking about lost opportunities, the incident with my co-worker. My whole life, I keep wavering between thinking I have control, I can make things happen and if it's not meant to be, it's not going to happen. Seems like I should really, truly believe in one or the other, like there are no atheists in foxholes - you either believe in baby jesus ( Read more... )

Cool day today = heavier shirt = gold silk slip underneath, fingers slide between the shirt buttons and caress nipples, nipples like this, lots. As the weather warms up, wearing lingerie under street clothes becomes difficult, lighter fabrics reveal the outline/color. Once, when I was less diligent checking my back in the mirror, a woman co-worker ( Read more... )

Obsession takes up time. I wonder how many hours in the week I could recover if I didn't have these passions? Then again, I could be fixated on baseball so may be it all evens out.

Today, gray, misty, rainy, perfect for wearing a headscarf, a soft whisper of silk charmuse scarf pulled forward for mystery, loosely tied at chin, ends long enough to stroke face silk through silk, hmmmmm