FYI

[sarahkjames]

Dr. Shere Hite, author of the Hite Report on female sexuality has spoken out against the pharmaceutical companies that are trying to create a market for Viagra-like products for women. In it, she states that women do not need a drug to make them more receptive to sex, they just need their partners to be more informed of what turns them on

Comments

[infinitus]

And of course the lesbian answer would be that having the same anatomy helps the understanding and communication immensely!

Oh, stop being so smug, you unapologetic lesbian, you. *sticks out tongue*

I'm sure this does help immensely. I think the problem for a lot of us straight gals is that we are socialized since birth to sublimate our needs and to avoid directly expressing our wants and desires since this is interpreted as aggressive/wanton/selfish/insert ridiculous adjective here. I'm proud to say that although it took me far too many years to figure it out, I've discovered that men do in fact take well to explicit direction. Love it, generally. (Ex. Me: "When I moan and say don't stop, it doesn't mean do it harder or faster or start wigglig around. It means, if you keep doing exactly what you are doing, at exactly that speed, until I tell you to stop, I will come." Man: "Thank you! This is the kind of thing I need to know." Me: "Enough talk. Back to work

[bunny_wabit]

ROFL! I think both of you are right. Honestly - I've been with girls that liked something in one way - but the same does not apply to another girl. It's different for each person - that is why you HAVE to talk. You have to tell you partner, and help him/her find out how they can better help you.

On the note of same anatomy helping.... :)
Hehehe.... I don't think it would help much in the case of two guys.... we are VERY VERY simple down there. Not twelve diffferent things to know the name of.

Also

I agree with Babygrrls statement about the keeping it going the same way. IT kind of is against the male nature... I'm 100% sure of that. I have yet to learn this. I have a tendency to fall back on what seems right to me.. being a guy - when you are masterbating... the tendency is to speed up when it is nice. So we try to apply the same idea to femail body.

Again - you need to talk to your partner to keep him in the level.

[schuywriter]

Does this pill, I have forgotten it's odd sounding name, increase desire for sex, aid with lubrication or actually help a woman achieve orgasm? I don't know what the pill is supposed to do. Viagra makes an erection, right? It doesn't guarantee an orgasm, am I correct?

What does this new female pill actually DO?