Hi Sarah, I'm so sorry to hear that you broke up with your boyfriend! It's really rough when careers force people apart. (There are two couples in my group of friends who will be separated this August to go to different universities, and one party in each moving to the far edges of Canada for two to five years.)
But in the big scheme of things, moving away to further your career is not a very big chunk of your life. Would he really have been "losing" you? I suppose I just feel that relationships should not depend on physical proximity. If he was too scared to commit to that, you're right, he doesn't deserve you. I'm glad that you could end the relationship with love instead of anger.
I still endorse Linkin Park as great for breakups.
I know what you mean. I have experienced a couple of break-ups that have somehow felt right instead of wrong. Actually, I've only ever experienced pre-dating breakups... But you get the idea. Lucky for me, the last one didn't stick =) Chin up kiddo!
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But in the big scheme of things, moving away to further your career is not a very big chunk of your life. Would he really have been "losing" you? I suppose I just feel that relationships should not depend on physical proximity. If he was too scared to commit to that, you're right, he doesn't deserve you. I'm glad that you could end the relationship with love instead of anger.
I still endorse Linkin Park as great for breakups.
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