I'm pathetique..

[sasuke_fuji]

Now I feel so horrible about myself

Comments

[tacuma811]

Omg, you forgot O_o I understand you feel bad. Maybe you should write her an email or call her. That way you can explain better what exactly happened. A text is just a short message. In an email you can write much more.
Maybe you can treat her to dinner or anything like that. To make up for it a little. Well, I guess the most important thing is talking to her. I hope she will reply! *hugs*

[sasuke_fuji]

yes, I did email her, but she hasn't replied it yet. The problem is she has moved to another city after the wedding. She was my senior high mate. We work in different city but we still keep in contact through email or phone call. She said she would have her wedding in our hometown (which is my town to work too) and I promise her to come. but I had ruined it.. T_T
I really hope she will reply my email soon so I can feel relief

[tacuma811]

I really hope she will reply! I hope the two of you can still be friends >_

[sasuke_fuji]

Thank you very much, Ann *hugs*

[paranoid_fridge]

^^; If she's your best friend, she'll probably understand.
Though maybe treating her to something is a good idea as well.(Dinner or a road trip just for the two of you or something else both of you enjoy).

Or maybe you can send her flowers/chocolates with a letter explaining what happened ^^ (shall keep my fingers crossed)

[sasuke_fuji]

Oh, you're right. Maybe I should send her something beside an email as my apologize. Thank you *hugs*

[yoshikochan]

*huggles* It's so hard to balance between friends and life. ~.~ Sometimes, you need your friends to be understanding of what's going on in your life. Other times, you have to know when to value your friendship more and that very important moment for them.

There are very few times in life when you have to throw away your own life for your friend. Usually they're semi-life threatening situations. It's always best when you can make time for both, but sometimes it doesn't work out that way. *hugs* Hopefully you're friend will understand. :'<

[sasuke_fuji]

I hope it so. The piano exam preparation has taken my concentration.
And the worst is, she has complained to me through email and I got bad Internet connection for a week. I've got my normal connection back yesterday, means days has passed since her last email. I hope she won't think me as a very very bad friend since I can't reply her email directly... TT_TT

[galadriel_lll]

OMG, this is the saddest thing I've ever heard... Weren't you a bridesmaid or something?

Anyway, I don't think a text message will do, a wedding is, after all, the most important day in most women's life and I think there's no valid excuse for missing it. I think the best approach is to call her like 20 times a day until she feels your repentance... And then making up for her buying her pretty stuff and inviting her to dinner and anything you can... In other words, grovel. I know it sounds a little bit cruel, but if my best friend missed my wedding, I don't think I'd forget her easily, you know, especially if her excuse was being too busy at work.

Now, maybe I'm wrong and she is a really forgiving person, in that case you have nothing to worry about, but I'd try calling her instead of smsing her.

I hope it works out *hugs you*

[sasuke_fuji]

Thank you. I'll did as you say.

[mitsu_syusuke]

I understand your feeling, sometimes we'll just keep busy and forgot the most important thing..
I think the best way is to apologize to her face to face and explain your situation,she'll understand..If she dindn't want to meet you, just call her repeatly like what galadriel-san said..
I hope she'll forgive you soon.. *hugs*

[sasuke_fuji]

yes, I hope so.