I'm Upset.
I know I haven't posted on here in a while, but I've been mad busy with school. But I'm posting to vent about something completely uncalled for that occurred today.
Well, it started last night really. My GBig messaged me on facebook telling me to unfriend someone. I said no, because she's not the problem in the situation (that being that my GGBig and BFF broke up and he was cheating with 3rd party). I understand that what he did was stupid and that he should have broken up with GGB before pursuing anyone, but it's a unique situation. My GBig got on my case continuously for not wanting to choose sides and refusing to unfriend this person. She kept saying it was to show my 'loyalty' and all these terrible things about a person she doesn't even know. I continued to say no and politely explain to her why. She apparently told my GGB about what I was saying and GGB being the hurt party is upset with 3rd party and I can understand why, but it's on BFF. He made the dumb decision. 3rd party didn't actively seduce him into it or anything. He should have been more intelligent in his choices and I know this. This has also been an event a LOOOOONG time coming. So we finished our fbook message debate and I check my profile just now and realize that there are fewer friends on my list. I checked and guess what my effing GBig unfriended me. OVER A EFFING BREAK UP! I can't believe that she would do that to me over a disagreement like this. She's my sister. It hurts more than anyone could know. I don't want to tell my Big or Little though because they love her and I still love her. I just don't know what to do to make her understand that I CANNOT take a side in this and unfriending this person would be choosing sides. I'm also 3rd party's friend. She came to me after the break up and explained the situation. I can't ignore that she confided into me and that truthfully it is on BFF. UGH....I'm just sad....
Well, it started last night really. My GBig messaged me on facebook telling me to unfriend someone. I said no, because she's not the problem in the situation (that being that my GGBig and BFF broke up and he was cheating with 3rd party). I understand that what he did was stupid and that he should have broken up with GGB before pursuing anyone, but it's a unique situation. My GBig got on my case continuously for not wanting to choose sides and refusing to unfriend this person. She kept saying it was to show my 'loyalty' and all these terrible things about a person she doesn't even know. I continued to say no and politely explain to her why. She apparently told my GGB about what I was saying and GGB being the hurt party is upset with 3rd party and I can understand why, but it's on BFF. He made the dumb decision. 3rd party didn't actively seduce him into it or anything. He should have been more intelligent in his choices and I know this. This has also been an event a LOOOOONG time coming. So we finished our fbook message debate and I check my profile just now and realize that there are fewer friends on my list. I checked and guess what my effing GBig unfriended me. OVER A EFFING BREAK UP! I can't believe that she would do that to me over a disagreement like this. She's my sister. It hurts more than anyone could know. I don't want to tell my Big or Little though because they love her and I still love her. I just don't know what to do to make her understand that I CANNOT take a side in this and unfriending this person would be choosing sides. I'm also 3rd party's friend. She came to me after the break up and explained the situation. I can't ignore that she confided into me and that truthfully it is on BFF. UGH....I'm just sad....