*Hugs*I'm sorry your so stressed out. How cool is the Haruka woman though? What was the conference for...writing? Try not to worry overmuch about getting pregnant, trust me, that just makes it even harder on you.
Okay, first off, close your eyes and take a deep breath. I can kinda relate to what you're going through as far as spreading yourself thin, since my fiance' and I are currently in the middle of planning our wedding (one of the bridesmades thinks her dress makes her look pregnant, we have to get the invitations out and we have yet to take care of the limo or some of the other things :P ).
One thing I do know is that if you worry too much it might actually affect your chances of getting pregnant. Are there people around you that you can delegate some of your responsibilities to so that it's not all on you?
One thing that might help- figure out when each thing on your to-do list is due, so that you can focus your time better on what's coming up sooner rather than trying to focus on everything at once (think of it like a triage- focus on what's soonest and/or hardest first). And most importantly, when you do get around to trying to become pregnant, try to relax as much as possible beforehand, it'll help your chances
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Let's see... Our wedding colors are egg shell and teal green (my favorite color's blue and hers is blue, so teal is a happy medium for us both). We both come from huge families (I have four sisters, two brothers, six nephews, nine nieces and believe it or not a grand-nephew and a grand niece. My fiancé has a LOT of Aunts, Uncles and cousins), and of course everyone wants to have a part in it, lol. It will take place at the local Catholic Church I grew up in and the reception will be at a Hawaiian-themed resort hotel nearby (as funny as it is to think of a Hawaiian-themed anything here in the Adirondack Region of Upstate New York
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I know I can't say I know exactly what you're talking about, but I do understand stress and right now I'm also understanding pressure and uncertainty. :/
However, I am certain that you shall come through this with flying colors. LTBS!
I should be online this Tues and Thurs. Probably a little later, as right now I'm working full-time and then like to get a couple of hours in at the garden if need be. ♥
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Okay, first off, close your eyes and take a deep breath. I can kinda relate to what you're going through as far as spreading yourself thin, since my fiance' and I are currently in the middle of planning our wedding (one of the bridesmades thinks her dress makes her look pregnant, we have to get the invitations out and we have yet to take care of the limo or some of the other things :P ).
One thing I do know is that if you worry too much it might actually affect your chances of getting pregnant. Are there people around you that you can delegate some of your responsibilities to so that it's not all on you?
One thing that might help- figure out when each thing on your to-do list is due, so that you can focus your time better on what's coming up sooner rather than trying to focus on everything at once (think of it like a triage- focus on what's soonest and/or hardest first). And most importantly, when you do get around to trying to become pregnant, try to relax as much as possible beforehand, it'll help your chances ( ... )
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I know I can't say I know exactly what you're talking about, but I do understand stress and right now I'm also understanding pressure and uncertainty. :/
However, I am certain that you shall come through this with flying colors. LTBS!
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I didn't forget - not at all!!
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I should be online this Tues and Thurs. Probably a little later, as right now I'm working full-time and then like to get a couple of hours in at the garden if need be. ♥
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