here the shadows make things ugly, an effect quite undesirable...

[sax_tothe_max]

Assuming that Danny doesn't try to call, should I call and wish him a happy birthday (July 15th) or would he think that I'm just doing it out of spite because he didn't call me and that I'm just trying to make him feel bad...or...would he think that I'm the better person for calling and doing something nice despite all the mean crap he put me

Comments

[binzer]

if he didn't call you on your birthday, i'd say don't call him on his. it sucks but it's probably just going to make you look like you're trying to get his attention.

how about finding out the hot boat guy's birthday and calling him instead?? :)

[darkened_skys]

i hate how guys can confuse us so ... what annoying trait that is of theirs. anywho i think if i were you i'd leave him like a happy birthday message like voice mail or something .. then after he gets it its up to him how to inturpret it and he can decide how he'd like to act on it without you haveing to have an awkward phone convo. but whatever you decide will be right.

[every_summer]

i'd say do it just to be nice even if he is an ass...because even though some of my middle school friends i never talk to, i still called most of them or left them a message online or something saying happy birthday because i know if they did that for me i'd feel good

that and it will make you look bigger than him, as in you're a better person then him

which you are=)

[sax_tothe_max]

Thanks guys. Too bad your opinions kinda differ a little. I'll just have to wait and see what happens. He might call me before his birthday and that may change everything!! Although, I seriously doubt he will. It's already been 10 days since we've talked. oh well..:(

thanks!
Erin