As Maddox would say: If you disagree with anything you find on this page, you are wrong.

[say_kiss]

Girls are one big fucking contradiction. Hence the reggression of my attitude. Apparantly, i had it right before when i was in highschool

Comments

[pags411]

All good input. Keep it clean, and keep it coming.

[hot_tamolly19]

Yeah, I agree with most of this...especially in high school, very few girls want the guy that's readily available. As many people have stated, we want to change the guy into our ideal man, even though that's not gonna happen. And if it does, we'll still see the fault in him. Male or female, though, you're always going to want what you can't have. It's a human flaw, I guess.

Nevertheless, girls have it crappy too, and you definitely can't throw the blame entirely on them.
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[tillie1123]

wow...that essay is awesome!

[hot_tamolly19]

AMEN! thats what i am talking about.

[anonymous]

I am of the nice guy origin, or at least that’s what people say, and I experience the same thing daily. I feel emotional pain pretty much everyday because I recently became attached to someone that posed interest in me and then didn’t and now we’re best friends, and I really do honestly, genuinely, sincerely (I can’t think of any other word that would describe how earnestly I feel) want to be bestest-estest friends with this one, more than anything. I had a sampling of not being her friend for about 12 hours and that just sucked. My friend recently began using that above away message and I never had the heart to tell her how much I hated it because of exactly what you said. I do all of those things and am there for her as long as I am physically capable, and reading that away message makes me think that I’m just not good enough (like you said). It’s obvious that I do these things, it’s impossible for her to ignore, but yet she still felt like she needed to put that away message up. If I do all the things without her telling me

[anonymous]

as to college, the only real problem is that everyone goes in expecting to find all these people who are more understanding, more like them, more mature about things, etc., maybe because of the dislike they felt towards the type of people in their high school. But really, they need to look inside of themselves and then apply it to the outside world, which is what I had to do. So it's not that college will bring you all of these 'better' people (which it will actually seem like at first) but I think college gives you the opportunity to understand what you need in a relationship

[k_law114]

carter... i dont even know what to say, I'm not worth all this, I swear it I'm not. I dont know what you see in me, but I promise you that you deserve a person ten million times better than me. And I'm not "just saying that" or trying to use it as the usual cliche, I truly mean it. Your friendship means so much to me, and you are always there for me no matter what, and I don't know if you realize how much you mean to me. You deserve the absolute best and I know I can't give that to you, but you'll find it eventually, because the nice guy always DOES win in the end, and when he does he gets everything he's always wanted and deserved.

ohhhh man

[anonymous]

you make a valid point, but don't think we aren't fully aware of this cycle- it's just the way it goes. girls like guys that are nice, but not too nice....guys who treat them well, but not well enough that they are completely satisfied. where's the fun in a completely perfect man? if he's perfect then there is no room for growth, hence the relationship is going no where. it sounds like what you need is to just get ridiculous with your boys, stop pondering the opposite sex, and just have fun! The best things in life come when you least expect them and when you are not looking for them, so just relax sweetheart! Trust me I know, I hold the all-powerful V-card, it's taped to my wall along with the rest of my collection, haha.

Re: ohhhh man

[say_kiss]

Hahaha, ya i love you too lauren :) I wouldnt have known it was you unless you put the clever V-card comment in. BUT, im glad that its, and i quote "all-powerfull".

But hey, at least your honest with your post, and thats all I really ask. Im glad you recognize the cylcle instead of just ignoring it and making insabstantial justifications to why its not true.

Im not updating my journal untill i get 100 comments ;)

[anonymous]

It's life....no one is right and no one is wrong, we all do it no matter what ya'll say. I think some ppl need to chill out and quit seeing it as a personal slash. -Shannon-