As far as I know, my paternal grandparents are still alive but I never got to know them because my biological father is deadbeat and wanted nothing to do with me. Which really was and is for the better.
My kids call their g-parents "Grandma & Pa-Pa" too. I have the reverse...Huge, huge memories and admiration for my grandmas...deceased grandfathers, so no memories there, and I feel a void from that. This is a lovely tribute to them though. Nice job. P.
I called my paternal grandfather Papa. We called my maternal one Grandpa.
It really bothers me sometime that I don't really miss my Papa. I don't really have any fond memories of him, and he kinda scared me. He had colon cancer when I was a kid, and I remember the bi-weekly visits we would make to his house. His bag was never emptied, his house reeked... and as a girl in elementary school, I hated going there. So when he died in 5th grade, I was sad, but not so that I was crying or anything. Still kinda bothers me. I guess I don't miss him because he reminds me of my dad, who I hate, so...
I never met my paternal grandmother, and my Grandpa passed away when I was in first grade. My only memories of him are the ones in the nursing home.
Luckily, I have my Grandma. I don't know what I'd do without her.
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One of the things I want to do when I'm older is to fly out to Hollywood and get his portrait on my back done by Kat Von D.
This is the picture I want:
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Your grandpa sounds like a really neat man. I'm glad the two of you have such a good relationship.
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As far as I know, my paternal grandparents are still alive but I never got to know them because my biological father is deadbeat and wanted nothing to do with me. Which really was and is for the better.
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I have the reverse...Huge, huge memories and admiration for my grandmas...deceased grandfathers, so no memories there, and I feel a void from that.
This is a lovely tribute to them though. Nice job.
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Thank you for the compliment and thank you for reading. :)
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It really bothers me sometime that I don't really miss my Papa. I don't really have any fond memories of him, and he kinda scared me. He had colon cancer when I was a kid, and I remember the bi-weekly visits we would make to his house. His bag was never emptied, his house reeked... and as a girl in elementary school, I hated going there. So when he died in 5th grade, I was sad, but not so that I was crying or anything. Still kinda bothers me. I guess I don't miss him because he reminds me of my dad, who I hate, so...
I never met my paternal grandmother, and my Grandpa passed away when I was in first grade. My only memories of him are the ones in the nursing home.
Luckily, I have my Grandma. I don't know what I'd do without her.
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