What is a man?

[scapigliato]

I’ve often heard heterosexual women say “I like my men to be men; but I also want them to be more sensitive.” What is this even supposed to mean? For one thing I would like to know how it is that a man is a man; how is a man supposed to be? Traditionally being a man entails being tough and aggressive, internalizing emotional distress, being

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[crimsonhalo]

The traditional 'masculine' man tries to pass himself off as strong on the outside but it has always been apparent that he is a mental midget, an emotional weakling. Seriously, I see these type in my town all the time, and they are so insecure inside they cannot even handle the thought of being looked at unless it's by 'cute chicks'.

I walk between all roles, personally, but it's terrifying to see these horrible people trying to hammer down, ridicule, and hurt anyone who threatens their shallow existence.

[genderf_ck]

Women can possess any of the aforementioned “masculine” characteristics without having her femininity put in question

I disagree. I think some people are uncomfortable no matter what whenever someone violates gender roles/norms.

however, in response to the rest of the rant, RIGHT FUCKING ON. it's so true and applicable it hurts.

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