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[scarletstains]

so i still have this feeling like i should be with her and then sometimes i feel like being with her is a burden. I don't know what's going on with me. I don't know if we will make it. I keep on telling myself that we will be together, but deep inside I'm not even sure if that's the way it's going to be. It's like she won't even face reality when i

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[__sweetcaroline]

if you both really care about each other, you should be able to stay close friends and support each other while you're both trying to pursue your education. you also have to consider the fact that you're older than her, more mature. she may not realize yet just how different it's going to be when you're away at college..

i don't know much else to say because i'm not in your situation but i'm here for you if you need me, which i'm sure you know already.

you're not ugly
& i love you kid<3

[devrin81]

i think you should go to college because that way you can get a degree and w/ it you'll have a better life. you'll be able to provide for your daughter and give her what she deserves. your life will just be easier w/ a degree. just make sure not to forget about your daughter while you're over there. if things go well, then i'm sure you'll make it and be able to be w/ your g/f. but if things don't work out for whatever reason then at least you tried. and you're right when you tell her not to put you before her school work cause she also needs an education.

[elicitlove]

Dear Friend,
This is a hard thing to do if she is getting really dependent on you. I think that you have to start thinking how much you love her and how much she loves you. I mean her being so close right now probably has to do with the fact that DEEP DOWN she knows that you will be going away soon and she wants every inch of you now that she can get... Still, whatever you do you should always stay close because your bond seems really close. DO GO TO COLLEGE. YOU HAVE TO GO TO COLLEGE. What if you don't go and she breaks up with you, then what? You would have nothing. GO TO COLLEGE. & see if things will work out between you guys and everything.

Toodles, Sahar

[scarletstains]

yeah thats what i have been thinking. definately. I really need to go to college. That's what i thought about first..i mean i would have nothing if i didnt go to college and she left me..then I'd be effed.

thank you for your advice

[secretlives]

I'm horrible with advice but all I have to say is just do what feels best. If it's breaking up with her, then so be it. She may not be "the one" or she may, only you know. Decide if it's her that you want to spend the rest of your life with and decide from there.

Yeah, look at that stupid advice I just said. And no, you are not ugly.

[blackboosted2]

yeah he is.