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[scharkz]

I'm tired of asking questions. I know my destiny. I know I will get there. But right now, I am at a little bit of a loss. How do I get there? In what direction do I plant the first step

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[xavenue]

Wooow, New York City. I'd like to go over there ;<. Heyy, and your name is really Hope?
Cheers

[scharkz]

yes my name is really Hope.... what's yours?

[jovial_jypsy]

Eh... I didn't like NYC. It was dirty and the people were rude. Just my opinion of it, though. I did go to an awesome party in Brooklyn, though.
That Will guy sounds like a jerk. You deserve better if you feel like you need to be with someone again. Sometimes it's best just to take some time to yourself to be stronger. Some of my happiest times are when I'm single, hanging out with my friends, and not getting hung up on trying to care more about someone other than myself. It can be good to focus on what you want to do without having to worry about feeling like you have to include another person all the time, or worry about what they want and having to compromise. If you feel like you get desperate when you are alone, maybe you can think of those times as taking off the training wheels (having another person to support you) toward being more independent. Not everyone is the same, but feeling lonely does tend to suck, unless you can find non-sucky things to focus on instead.

[scharkz]

thank you. i needed that.