Comments | schnerfle: Desperate is not a sexual preference.

schnerfle

Desperate is not a sexual preference.

May 11, 2009 01:10

We all have standards, even if all it is is: Well, they don't hate me. Tell me what the measuring stick is that you hold those you are romantically interested in by. The shallow (Eyes, teeth, ass), the deep and everything in between. There's no judgment from me.

What makes someone datable?

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crazywhitetiger May 11 2009, 11:21:11 UTC

The Shallow ( ... )

Part two crazywhitetiger May 11 2009, 11:27:18 UTC

Oh right, personal hygiene, have some.

Smokers, drug addicts, and alcoholics need not apply.

wolf346 May 12 2009, 00:29:56 UTC

The shallow: I'm surprisingly easy going about this. I don't find most supposed attractive girls all that appealing, but rather get drawn to the subdued natural type of beauty in simplicity.

The deep: I need a geeky girl. Just someone I can actually have a decent conversation on books, series, movies, comics, etc. If I make a reference to the hero of Canton and she gets it, that's a lot in her favour. I want someone who can keep me on my toes with a playful wit. Someone that can convince me to get out, cut loose, and just have fun.

Everything in between: Someone humourous, who doesn't take everything seriously (mostly to counter me). That can understand that I'm a quiet guy who doesn't need to speak a lot.

hydingjekyll May 12 2009, 01:58:46 UTC

Shallow: I find physically fit women attractive, although I also love women with nicely-rounded curves. Ten or fifteen pounds more than she actually needs can be very cute, and they make a woman nice and soft, too. As long as she's healthy, her body is probably going to be very attractive. The fact that she takes reasonably good care of herself is also a good indicator of wisdom, self-worth, self-discipline, or some combination of the three; all are attractive as hell to me, and fit into the Deep end.

Along with that, I need someone who is independent with her feelings. I want my company to be desired by a romantic partner, but not in a clingy or co-dependent way. She needs I need her to appreciate having her own space and her own identity as a human being; I want her to want me because she wants me, not because she needs the presence of me or someone similar in her life. We need to be friends first and foremost. She also needs to be independent in her thoughts, instead of taking all her opinions and beliefs from her friends ( ... )