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[schnerfle]

Apparently I forgot to update yesterday, oops

Comments

[ahasuerus]

What defines the line between someone intellectually challenging you and someone being a pedant? The difference between the two is just a matter of degree, but you attribute a separate (or at least seemingly separate) underlying cause to each.

I'm also curious what you think your physical preferences are--I thought about mine, then thought about previous girlfriends, and there are patterns (weirdly colored hair, nice ass) that stick out in all of them. That's weird, so now I'm wondering.

[schnerfle]

When I make my comment about the pedantry, it reflects directly on an old relationship I used to have. The guy didn't challenge me intellectually, he just went out of his way to try to make me feel as stupid as possible. If I ever said anything, I was wrong. And he would beat me down over and over about how I was wrong. Even if I was actually right, it didn't matter, because he needed to be the smart one and me be the dumb one that looks up to him. I don't need jackassery.

As for physical, well... in THEORY I like people with dark hair and pale skin with either very dark eyes or vivid blue/green. On girls I like freckles. I apparently also like weight. Everyone I've ever dated has been overweight. One of them was actually quite ripped and I made him get pudgy by feeding him all the time.

Not as interesting as I'm sure you thought it would be.

[hydingjekyll]

Sounds pretty reasonable.

[crazywhitetiger]

I agree especially on your points about intellectually challenging and the spaz bit. Besides being a spaz myself automatically knocks me out of the running, even if I help you edit :)