Congratulations to Bear...

[scorpio_queen78]

Not that he'll ever see this, but...

My ex (anyone who knows me, knows the mess...) who I was with off and on for almost 5 years became a father for the first time today.

Feels weird from this end, but I'm genuinely happy for him and his family!

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[taytaycrys]

I always wondered what happened between you two but I didn't want to bring it up.

[scorpio_queen78]

Crystal, he came back from Iraq and kept doing the same shit he was doing before he left. I couldn't keep doing it. He tried to sleep with one of my friends and I cut all relationship (and sex) ties between us. We were still friends until I started dating Jason and he got really jealous.

We had a blowout last Spring/Summer because I wouldn't cheat on Jason, haven't talked to him since, but still keep in regular contact with his mom.

[taytaycrys]

wow, I am sorry!!
Did he seem like a totally different person to you after he got back? I actually hung out with Jer alot when he got back and he was just sooo different. I did not know him at all. He was NOT the same person that left, not even close and then he did actually sleep with my so called best friend. I could not believe when you told me that, cus you were telling my story!! LOL!!!!

Then like 6 months later he came into the bar where I was working and he started talking to me, asked how Tay and I were like nothing ever happened. I speak to him when I see him but he is not the Jer I knew. I miss him, I don't know this new guy... he is sooo different.

[scorpio_queen78]

Yes and No, he was a different person in some ways. He always was somewhat inconsiderate towards me unless he needed me, but when he got back, it was like my feelings didn't matter. Not to mention accusing me of sleeping with his best friend while he was gone. 1) didn't happen. 2) he spent so much time telling me that we didn't have a relationship (but telling me he loved me, etc) while he was gone, why should it matter if I had???

[scorpio_queen78]

Jodi, the only reason I can be happy for him is because I am happy with my life too. I have no resentment towards him, and his significant other (no idea what she is to him) has nothing to do with me...

He always wanted to be a father, so I'm glad he finally got there :)

[lifeofamom]

Wow! Congrats to him!