You know that moment where anger at another person fades because you start to recognize yourself? I had that moment last night. Whitney took me to Melting Pot for what amounts to a "farewell dinner
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It has been one of my unfortunate observations about life that wisdom and insight are almost always born of pain. Some of us learn from that pain, some of us learn from the pain of others, and some of us don't learn anything at all and make the same mistakes later....
As one who has worked many times with my husband, the most important thing you can do is to maintain who you are separate from the other. We keep personal at home and we are professional at work. Many times I have had to stand up to Ed the programmer and tell him his work is a piece of sh*t as the quality assurance manager. Not easy, but it always stayed at work. I would love to lose myself in Ed, but it wouldn't be healthy. Couples should compliment each other not become each other.
Is "Smother" the right word? Or just an excuse?pktaxwenchSeptember 30 2005, 03:49:56 UTC
Interestingly, I've noticed the trend of women who claim they "are being smothered" by their significant others, are women who mentally have already ended their relationships (but not informed their partner yet) and have moved on to someone new. The claim of smothering comes in when the partner starts questioning potentially questionable/cheating beheavior.
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