It's that time again. ALREADY. More Joy Day 2009!
But before I get to that, I want to thank rosiespark, par_avion, sweet-ali, and bheerfan for their lovely cards this holiday! Also, someone sent me an amazing t-shirt that says "THIS IS AWESOME" that I have had sitting on my desk and just smiling at, but there is no name attached. Kind soul, please step forward so I can smoosh you!
I don't know if it's just me, but the last half of 2008 just flew by. It's already time to make a post about the next More Joy Day! It is a GO for two weeks from yesterday, January 15th!
For anyone who doesn't know or has forgotten what More Joy Day is, here's the skinny from the original post (updated with new dates):
Awhile back, I was reading the American Idol recaps over on Televisionwithoutpity.com and I came to this paragraph, written by the recapper Jacob:
Some dick cuts you off on the highway, and you give yourself the pass to be a dick to the next five customers, and your bad mood fades by lunchtime, and you forget the dick on the highway, you forget the color of his car, you forget how he was on the phone with his ex-wife, yelling about custody of their kids, and how he never meant to cut you off in the first place, he was just distracted. Your day continues as planned, and at lunch you check your websites and read a funny recap, and you maybe laugh out loud, and you go home and watch TV. But those five guys give themselves the pass to be dicks to the next five -- they're having a bad day, so it's okay just this once, and they're happy again by lunch -- and those twenty-five become six hundred twenty-five, and those six twenty-five become a million, and you've added to the sum total of anger in the world. But it works with love, too, and kindness. ... Your donation is something tangible, but what it means is something altogether more powerful, and it's that you continue to stand, and you continue to remember that you're not alone, and with reverence for this fact, you can't help but add to joy. Which is your entire job, from the day you're born until the day you die: more joy.
I thought starting 2009 with a day dedicated to More Joy would be a good way to get a jumpstart on a better year.
So here’s my idea:
In the interest of spreading more joy, I’m proposing that two weeks from yesterday, Thursday, January 15th, we each engage in one act, either here on or outside of LJ, which brings joy to another person, in the hopes that that person will spread that joy further, and exponentially onward.
Some ideas I had of things we could do:
Write a fic, make an icon, make a vid, or make a fanart for someone. Buy someone paid time or userpics. Leave someone a nice comment. Say something nice about something fannish someone else loves. Say something nice about something fannish you love and encourage squee (and squee on someone else’s post if they make one!). Offer to beta for someone. Offer to donate five dollars to the charity of someone's choice. Send flowers to an online friend in a different city. Buy someone you know online a present. Or a virtual present. Plant a tree or a flower in someone's honor and take a picture of it and post it to your LJ. When somebody cuts you off at work, wish them well and hope they get where they’re going safely. Make somebody a friendship bracelet. Or a construction paper heart. Call someone you love and tell them so. Or anything else you can think of!
Then on that Thursday, make a post saying what you've done (or a note that it's More Joy day), and that will hopefully help spread things further.
2008, like 2007, like every year, had its share of ups and downs for folks. I really got a kick out of starting off 2008 with a fresh surge of optimism and hope, and I hope you all did, too. Honestly, the only reason More Joy Day works is because of you guys, and I hope you'll join me again on January 15th! And if you need some ideas check my memories for all of the amazing stuff that people did last time. But remember that even a single, small act can have an amazing ripple. :)
I don't know if it's just me, but the last half of 2008 just flew by. It's already time to make a post about the next More Joy Day! It is a GO for two weeks from yesterday, January 15th!
For anyone who doesn't know or has forgotten what More Joy Day is, here's the skinny from the original post (updated with new dates):
Awhile back, I was reading the American Idol recaps over on Televisionwithoutpity.com and I came to this paragraph, written by the recapper Jacob:
Some dick cuts you off on the highway, and you give yourself the pass to be a dick to the next five customers, and your bad mood fades by lunchtime, and you forget the dick on the highway, you forget the color of his car, you forget how he was on the phone with his ex-wife, yelling about custody of their kids, and how he never meant to cut you off in the first place, he was just distracted. Your day continues as planned, and at lunch you check your websites and read a funny recap, and you maybe laugh out loud, and you go home and watch TV. But those five guys give themselves the pass to be dicks to the next five -- they're having a bad day, so it's okay just this once, and they're happy again by lunch -- and those twenty-five become six hundred twenty-five, and those six twenty-five become a million, and you've added to the sum total of anger in the world. But it works with love, too, and kindness. ... Your donation is something tangible, but what it means is something altogether more powerful, and it's that you continue to stand, and you continue to remember that you're not alone, and with reverence for this fact, you can't help but add to joy. Which is your entire job, from the day you're born until the day you die: more joy.
I thought starting 2009 with a day dedicated to More Joy would be a good way to get a jumpstart on a better year.
So here’s my idea:
In the interest of spreading more joy, I’m proposing that two weeks from yesterday, Thursday, January 15th, we each engage in one act, either here on or outside of LJ, which brings joy to another person, in the hopes that that person will spread that joy further, and exponentially onward.
Some ideas I had of things we could do:
Write a fic, make an icon, make a vid, or make a fanart for someone. Buy someone paid time or userpics. Leave someone a nice comment. Say something nice about something fannish someone else loves. Say something nice about something fannish you love and encourage squee (and squee on someone else’s post if they make one!). Offer to beta for someone. Offer to donate five dollars to the charity of someone's choice. Send flowers to an online friend in a different city. Buy someone you know online a present. Or a virtual present. Plant a tree or a flower in someone's honor and take a picture of it and post it to your LJ. When somebody cuts you off at work, wish them well and hope they get where they’re going safely. Make somebody a friendship bracelet. Or a construction paper heart. Call someone you love and tell them so. Or anything else you can think of!
Then on that Thursday, make a post saying what you've done (or a note that it's More Joy day), and that will hopefully help spread things further.
2008, like 2007, like every year, had its share of ups and downs for folks. I really got a kick out of starting off 2008 with a fresh surge of optimism and hope, and I hope you all did, too. Honestly, the only reason More Joy Day works is because of you guys, and I hope you'll join me again on January 15th! And if you need some ideas check my memories for all of the amazing stuff that people did last time. But remember that even a single, small act can have an amazing ripple. :)