Comments | seannemarie: Heavy Stuff

seannemarie

Heavy Stuff

Nov 15, 2005 09:10

I had already been in a stage of re-evaluating my life, trying to figure out what's working, what's not and why, how to perpetuate what is and how to fix what's not. I got some information a couple of days ago that redoubled my introspection, made re-evaluating a much more urgent and important thing than it was. The information is something ( Read more... )

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mineke November 15 2005, 10:07:16 UTC

I think it would be a capitol idea if you took a vacation

misspii November 15 2005, 12:12:36 UTC

I second that

seannemarie November 16 2005, 11:44:12 UTC

Yup. Thank you. I think it's the only way. :)

seannemarie November 16 2005, 11:43:29 UTC

I thoroughly plan to. Still wanna go to NYC in March? I need to go before then, I think, but it's always good to go back and get more fabric. :D

Plus, I still need to go to LA to visit the fam.

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fork in the road? anonymous November 15 2005, 10:24:41 UTC

you sound not so well. you had a friend visiting from NYC over the weekend right? does this have anything to do with her? or anyone back in NYC? your sweety? stepping out is always a good idea as long as you can find your way back home.

Re: fork in the road? seannemarie November 16 2005, 11:48:09 UTC

A friend, her coworker and his friend, yes. Does it have to do with her? Sort of, but not exactly. Someone back in NYC? Yes, but not directly. My sweety? Yes, but he pretty much has something to do with everything in my life. I do believe I'll be planning a trip to NYC soon to try to get my bearings and a different perspective. Thanks. :)

Re: fork in the road? anonymous November 17 2005, 10:14:14 UTC

sounds very familiar. i've been thru a similar blue phase few years earlier. i think you are missing someone there, in NYC, whom you used to be with perhaps an ex-boyriend?? i often think of my ex's but mostly when things in my life are not so well. thinking of all the good times we had together makes me feel better, and most often helps me appreciate what i have now.i might be too off of course but i thought i'd give it a shot;-)

Re: fork in the road? seannemarie November 17 2005, 14:19:03 UTC

Oddly enough, my ex-boyfriend may be the only person there that I *don't* miss. (He's not a bad guy. We just weren't right for each other.) I've been talking to my friend, the one who was here visiting, and I think I'm getting a better handle on what's going on in my head. And I'll be going to NYC for a week or so in January. :)

paxxton November 15 2005, 22:18:02 UTC

I take a vacation by myself just about once a year just for the same reason and it does wonders.

seannemarie November 16 2005, 11:50:08 UTC

I've never been much of a fan of traveling without my sweetie. I just enjoy things more when I have someone to share it with. This time, though ... I think I can only work out my thoughts on my own, away from my usual day to day. I think you're right, that it will work wonders. Sometimes just looking at things from a different vantage point can clear up all uncertainty.