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[secondshadow]

Alright. I'm going to make this PERFECTLY clear. Since apparently folks assume that since even though they express this sentiment towards me, apparently I have to EXPLICITLY request it as it is not implied by them asking it of me.

If you have an issue with my girlfriend, thats between you and her, not me.Right now I have 2 MAJOR projects I'm

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[ques_nova]

You know, I didn't ask for your advise, your help or your analysis. Quite frankly, I probably wouldn't take the advise, the "help" would have made things worse and I'd have disagreed with your analysis. Sometimes, when people get pissed off, they just want to rant, to vent, to simply get things out of their system so they get out of a pissy mood (seriously, what do you think most people are on lj for? I just prefer an actual person to rant to than a computer!) Like I said, you were the first person on my buddylist and so the first person I immed. I immed you in a pissy mood and wanted to fix that and so I ranted.

[secondshadow]

And the fact of the matter is that on they very few occasions where the positions were reveresed and all I wanted to do was rant, this was exactly the response I got, from both you and Russ. And no, that post wasn't directed entirely at you. Furthermore, on the singular occasion where I wasn't met with this response you responded to me in the EXACT same manner I responded to you. Don't expect me to treat you differently than you treat me. You think you're in a pissy mood? Well GUESS WHAT! I wasn't feeling the greatest either. In fact I'm still not. SO DEAL since thats apparently what you seem to expect that I should have done. I mean seriously, you get all grrrr at me because I respond to you in the same manner that you responded to me in a similar situation (actually the only thing similar about it was that your problem was with my other half and mine was with yours, not that that happens very often. Quite frankly you and I argue quite a bit more)? WTF is that

[ques_nova]

Kevin, I don't want you to see things my way, or to think like me and I certainly am not stupid enough to expect you to. There's a huge fucking differance between this situation and any in the past and if you can't see that, oh well.

don't bitch to ME of all people about my fiance. I just don't get why that would make sense to ANYONE.

Simple, because you were my friend before you even fucking knew her. I rant to my friends when I'm pissed.
It's fine though because you're right. There is an easy solution.