lots of fun till 5am

[seek2find]

Last night I went to my first gay club: Pegasus, in Pittsburgh. I went with Kate, Brent, Matt and this other guy....who I don't remember his name

Comments

[tim2pac]

"That's right. I am a lesbian. I know what you are all thinking, 'Does this mean that because I laughed, I am gay?' and the answer is...yes, yes it does."
-Eva Kurt

[charcoalrain]

I just have to share:

Lables are for can's of mystery meat in the back of the freezer!

Ok so with that said, I can relatr to your comment about just being 'sexual' instead of gay straight or bi. I've been labled all three at some point but really I think it's all just sillyness. I tell my friends (and anyone who asks really) that "today I'm gay, tomorrow I might be straight or bi, it depends on which of my shirts I decide to wear" I like to trivialize labling people primarily because I know who I am and what I like/want and that's enough for me. Although I suppose I'm lucky, I have a wide variety of gay, straight and bi friends. I hope you find a nice niche where you can be comfortable as a sexual being.

x's and o's

-Ani

[seek2find]

and I think I found that group.
thank you for your wisdom.

Sara

[tubbie]

a story

[pizzaspirit]

You ought to look into some queer theory, if you haven't already. Queer theory essentially holds that terms for sexuality like 'gay' and 'straight' are artificial, and therefore fail to capture that human sexuality is a spectrum, rather than an "all, nothing, or half-half" kind of thing. In fact, most people have some of each. There are also different aspects of sexuality, from the purely physical to the purely emotional, and everything in between.

New perspective

[seek2find]

I've never heard of queer theory...but it's an interesting theory, something to check out.

thank you.

~sara~