I'm just fed up

[seekin4therapy]

Okay, prepare yourself for a LONG ASS rant, because this is a really sore subject for me and frankly I'm just sick and tired of stupid, judgemental people who wouldn't know a good thing if it bit them in the ass :/

Sensitive Joon:
Cried when he thought his members were mad at him.
Even when he was feeling upset, he still asked Joori if she was

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[seekin4therapy]

Yeah, I see comments all the time saying he comes off as stuck up and arrogant, but I don't see that at all =.= I feel for his smile because it seemed so genuine, and he's such a squishy person I just wanna SQUEEZE him xDD

*hugs back* thanks bb~

[seekin4therapy]

*fell xD

[thethirdstone]

I dropped here via Tumblr via LJ via Kpop Macros and wanted to check out your LJ because your macros are OSM and I decided to read all this too.
I am not an Mblaq listener nor a Joon fan in particular (I do have a slight fail at Mir though) but I agree 100% with everything you said because I feel just the same about the other amazing people in Kpop Land that are very dear to me.

This was supposed to be long and more in depth but I just realized it's late and I have to get my ass and my mini laptop filled with Kpop goodness sky rocket into the night shift (and how glorious it is the morning after a Kpop binge at work, to go into, yes you know it, moar Kpop!) . But I still wanted to leave a comment to say in true macro fashion U R GOOD JOB and thumbs up for you and sticking to your opinions and the people you believe in, whether you know them personally or not. One thing you do know is what they've given you and I think that's what matters the most.
I am out.

[seekin4therapy]

LOL thank you

[thethirdstone]

I know, right? I mean Kpop is crack and wank all over and I hope it will continue to be like that forever so I can pass it on to my children and sure as hell there are people I don't like so I throw a joke here and there but to go and throw the hate? Troll forums? Insult the members during concerts? AND STILL claim I support the band ?! No wait, something's off there. I feel you about the Jay situation, it has hurt me deeply because I have my reasons for liking that squirt, people actually thought I had a personal problem with someone during that time and when they found out they went wtf on me. But for me it's important because of the things I have been given, regardless if they were intentional or not (and I bet most of them weren't) but that's how some people, strangers on that stage, happen to touch us

[seekin4therapy]

That moment with Siwon was so great, it pretty much made my life. All of the 13+-1=0, the AKTF stuff with DBSK, the DC drama, just... ugh. There's a point where it crosses the line of wank and turns into trolling :/

MFTE.

Haha, I understand completely, no worries :) Some things just need to be said.
And a good night/morning to you to XD

[xaoiholic]

Okay, so obviously I just had to comment.

You just basically put everything, EVERYTHING I've been thinking and ranting about for ages into words. This whole post, I should totally bookmark it. I love you so hard rn.

I hate it how people see him as arrogant, as a show-off because he has a nice body. The 'put-your-shirt-on-Joon' meme we talked about just now, that's just bullshit. The guy has no choice and what the hell do they care a hottie walks without a shirt! Last time I checked, Joon ain't that bad to look at at all. Hot dayum.

Changsun is a gorgeous, gorgeous person and if I could choose on who I'd like to be friends with I would pick Changsun in a heartbeat. He's lovely, openminded and so different from a lot of idols. I stan him so hard, it's ridic. I honestly just want to hug him. Really, really hard. He's so.. /sighs and rambles on for ages

I'm sorry for creeping up on you like that, but I couldn't let this left uncommented.

[seekin4therapy]

Omg girl I'm loving you just as hard for totally getting where I'm coming from with this ;_____;
He's such a beautiful person, I can't stand it when people fucking /judge/ him just because he takes his shirt off! Ugh, I've never EVER stanned someone this hard before, but I can't help but bring out the bitch claws when someone says something bad about him because he gets enough criticism as it is when he doesn't deserve any of it. God, and the worst part is that he /knows/ about all the bad things people say about him T-T I just... I wish I could have the chance to meet him and let him know that there're people out there who love him for who he is, no matter what, y'know?

BE MY FRIEND PRZ? *puppy dog eyes*

[xaoiholic]

GUUUURL, IKR? It's ridic how they go all up in Joon's kool-aid about him being cocky and arrogant, because honestly, Joon is everything but cocky and arrogant. Unsecure people tend to act way different from their normal personality, in order to make people like them anyways. Joon got a lot of comments on having a good body, thus the frequent tummy showing. Someone as self-conscious as Joon is just too sensitive towards criticism.. It's so sad for the boy, he's such a sweetheart.

And gurl, you instantly became my friend the second I read this post. ♥

[seekin4therapy]

EXACTLY. He's like one of the most insecure people in Kpop, and those idiots don't see it because they see him perform and automatically dislike him so they don't take the time to see past the stage performance :/ And they say he talks too much (have they seen Mir, helloooo) but I don't think he does tbh (his stutter is adorable though, omg <3). Ilhsfm~~

Yay! ♥♥♥♥ Do you have an MSN account? :3

[osanago_ryu]

Oh my gosh.... I fear I won't be able to write anything proper hear,because you basically wrote everything I've been thinking for ages, already here. And I couldn't be more happy about this and that someone really wrote about these things in public.
It makes me wonder, how many people around there really think that crazyness, loudness or
goofing around is straightly equal to self-confidence? Because no way in hell it's not as easy as that, and right from the start.
+ Wonder if anyone ever think what Joon himself feels about all the hating, commenting and the rough criticizing? I bet not too many, and damn. It makes me hella sad.

Gah I keep repeating the same things all over again ~__~ My main point here?
I AGREE SFM WITH THIS. /bookmarks this entry

[seekin4therapy]

Hahaha, thank you :) I just finally got so frustrated with hearing people talk about how they don't like him because he's "arrogant" or because he takes his shirt of too much. I mean, the first part isn't true at all, and the second part doesn't affect anyone but him so why does it matter?
I can understand people not liking other people because of something awful they've said or done to another person, but Joon's never done anything to hurt anyone else, so what valid reason do people have for not liking him?
*sigh* I suppose I've just reached the breaking point. I'll admit I am fiercely protective of him now xD
The main thing is, I don't care if people like him or not, but as soon as they say something hurtful or idiotic about him I jump down their throats lol. Maybe that makes me a bitch, idk, I just don't believe in hating someone based on a percieved and untrue assumption about their personality.

[sleepy_sheep137]

This. This totally needed to be said. I can't understand how people can be so unreasonably hateful, especially toward someone that they don't even know. Like, why put all of that energy into hating someone? What do you even get from that? There's no fufillment in that. Loving people makes you happy, it makes them happy, it makes for better people. There's fufillment in love.

I adore Joon; He's so open-hearted and open-minded and really just a big glorious dork. My heart hurts for him when people say all of these awful things about him.

JSYK, I came over here from the EPIC SHINEE PARTY. I hope you don't mind my friending you ^^;;;;

[seekin4therapy]

Me neither! I mean, there're are idols I don't like, but I don't /hate/ them D: Why would you want to live with that in your life? It just makes you a bitter person and I don't see the point, especially when you don't even know the person you're hating on.

This boy just makes me so happy, idek. I love him so much lol (but not in the cray cray "MARRY ME OPPA" fangirl way), and I've gotten to the point where I go off on anyone that says something hateful about him because I'm so fed up with it xD

I remember you from there, omg it was so awesome I want to do it again! Yay for more friends, especially one's who love SHINee and Joon as much as I do 8D