The thing with the Russians and the Germans, yeah, well. >_>
This made me lol: the only response I got was 'don't worry. You will change your mind. Biology is stronger, you will start to love kids!!
My mom and my aunts used to say this to me when I was 14 and hating kids, 20 and hating kids, 30 and hating kids... they started to shut up by the time I was 35 because they figured I was getting on a bit for childbirth. *g*
STILL NO KIDS!
So just let them, nod and say 'yes yes maybe' and ... don't have kids if you don't want them. Heee. :)
Yeah it's just weird. Espeically when you understand that they see all these bad things only because they already have all these prejudices... I've been there. And I wasn't bothered. Not by the Germans, not by Russians. (Just by their kids >_>)
Oh it makes me kind of happy to hear that it's not only me who has to listen to this shit over and over again. I mean...it's great if you like kids! And it's also okay if you don't! I just hate this opinion that you can't become happy without a family. >_> And I thought we all are humans and not some animals whose insticts are stronger than everything else...
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This made me lol: the only response I got was 'don't worry. You will change your mind. Biology is stronger, you will start to love kids!!
My mom and my aunts used to say this to me when I was 14 and hating kids, 20 and hating kids, 30 and hating kids... they started to shut up by the time I was 35 because they figured I was getting on a bit for childbirth. *g*
STILL NO KIDS!
So just let them, nod and say 'yes yes maybe' and ... don't have kids if you don't want them. Heee. :)
Anyway, welcome home!
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I've been there. And I wasn't bothered. Not by the Germans, not by Russians. (Just by their kids >_>)
Oh it makes me kind of happy to hear that it's not only me who has to listen to this shit over and over again. I mean...it's great if you like kids! And it's also okay if you don't! I just hate this opinion that you can't become happy without a family. >_>
And I thought we all are humans and not some animals whose insticts are stronger than everything else...
'Anyway, welcome home!' Thanks! =D
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